I'm sorry, but I think state schools for the deaf suck! They claim to have "bi bi philosphy" and then when we choose to speak while signing (some of us like to) they scream at us to shut the fuck up. Fuck that shit.
And living in the dorms? That is not fun. That is torture! The staff in the dorms tried to pull all kinds of shit on me and my foster parents (because well I had 2 foster moms). Eventually I quit. Glad I quit.
Students there are horrible.
I also think it is terrible that so many parents send their deaf kids to the state school for the deaf which would be like 3-4-5 or more hours away. Now many deaf kids tell me that they hardly have a relationship with their parents because they only saw them on the weekends.A lot of the kids there have been at the school since they werelike 2-3 years old until they graduate from high school! How the hell is that supposed to prepare them for the real world?! Sometimes I feel like they have decided that it would just be easier to stash their deaf kids at the state school rather than keep them in local public school and work with their kids on school, language, and communication stuff. Most parents don't even sign. A lot of them don't even try. I personally think it's the parents' responsibility to work with their kids and try their best and try all options before sending the kids off to the state school.
I know some state schools for the deaf aren't up to par academically, but in some ways, they do provide sanctuary for many disadvantaged kids. Anyway, the manner teachers used when telling you to turn off your voice whilst signing is unprofessional.
I used to speak sim-com at school and wasn't told off for it, and my school was bi-bi.
I agree with you about life in the dorm. I stayed overnight or two at a dorm at ECD in Canada, and that was enough to put me off on the idea of living in school residence. I was so grateful that mum were resistant to efforts to put me in dormitory, and kept me at home.
I've noticed that kids in deaf schools aren't very acceptable of those who were 'different' (like goths, gays, geeks, just like normal schools, I guess), but it's felt more at schools for the deaf. I know because I speak from experience. I was an outcast because I was more academic and conservative. They rather have others who were conformists.
Heath, many good points. Let's hope the deaf community and the deaf schools will work cohesively to make the prospect of educating one deaf kid more attracive to parents. Let's face it schools for the deaf are at the risk of declining to a point of closure.
It's true it cost far more to educate kids in special education than mainstream education. I recall an example from Professor Clark's book; he said something like it cost about $200,000 to educate one deaf kid at school for the deaf for about 12 years in contrast to $70,000 for one deaf kid in mainstream school for the same amount of years.
No wonder the Govt wants to close schools for the deaf to save money, or merge deaf and blind into one.
You just have remember that not every school for the deaf are the same in attitudes, standard of education etc. Some are better funded, have good teachers and good rapports within the school community, deaf community and community in general.
With more deaf people being aware of the power in blogs and such will ensure their voices are to be heard when they want changes to be made in schools for the deaf, deaf unit programs and such. I'm sure by then, we'll see empowerment and heaps more of improvements. It just takes time.
Please excuse me for blathering on.