Well I have noticed that kids with disabilties tend to have people and parents harp constantly on their "defects" or shortcomings for re/Habilitation purposes and they forget to remind the dhh/otherwise disabled kids that they might be good at stuff. In our society we think that a disabilty has to effect someone globally so they are useless eaters who cannot achieve anything, or a Super high achieving deaf/ disabilty who can magicly overcome their disabilties with little or no assistance.but we are not here to say that your issue is nothing but if you look around, you will realize that you have so much to be grateful about.