I am hearing, but I had a really, really, really, really bad speech effect when I was younger. After YEARS of speech therapy, I got to where I could speak well...or at least, I thought I could. haha...
I was staying at my Aunt and Uncle's house and they said, "Raquel, we are so proud of you. Even though you have your speech effect, you work hard to correct yourself and sound right." I was thinking... "Ummm...Okay. Do I still have my speech effect?" I thought I was saying everything just fine.
So...to relate that ^ to this thread... I did not know it was offensive to comment on 'great speech skills' or anything like that. (Thank you for teaching me that.) In the same way, though, when someone commented on my speech skills, I was kind of taken aback, too.
Raquel
P.S. If I ever say anything that seems offensive to anyone, I am sorry! I am trying to know Deaf culture, but I am sure I will probably have some weird perspectives on things. haha Please teach me what is appropriate in Deaf culture! Thank y'all!