I don't like the term, "hearing impaired. I've gone so far as to have it documented on his IEP that the terminology will be either; "hard of hearing" or "hearing loss." I got tired of seeing the word, "impaired" all over his IEP.
I realize some people don't like the term, "hearing loss" but for me it's more of a clinical reference. In the same way someone is clinically, "deaf."
I don't view my son as, "disabled" although legally he is. I view him as enabled to communicate and learn in different ways.
I agree that a lot of the challenge comes from the way people view those who are technically disabled. They don't realize that it doesn't necessarily mean that they are unintelligent or incapable of getting things accomplished and being productive members of society.