Spanking Children Fuels Aggression, Anxiety

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I saw this story on Yahoo tonight. After all the posts about the girl forced to stand on the street corner, it will probably start another lively debate.

PS: I hope that everyone has a nice Thanksgiving. :)

Spanking children fuels aggression, anxiety
By Megan Rauscher
Mon Nov 21,11:42 AM ET

Children who are spanked when they misbehave are more likely to be anxious and aggressive than children who are disciplined in nonphysical ways, research shows. This is true even if spanking is the "cultural norm."

Whether parents should spank their children or use other forms of physical discipline is controversial. Some experts argue that children should not be spanked when they act out citing evidence that it leads to more, rather than fewer, behavior problems and it could escalate into physical abuse. There are data to support this argument.

Other experts, however, argue that the effects of spanking and physical discipline might depend on the characteristics of the child and family and the circumstances in which it is used.

To investigate the latter theory, researchers from questioned 336 mothers and their children in China, India, Italy, Kenya, the Philippines, and Thailand about cultural norms surrounding use of physical discipline and how it affected their children's behavior.

Jennifer Lansford, a research scientist from the Center for Child and Family Policy at Duke University spearheaded the survey. She told Reuters Health that "across the six countries studied, children who were physically disciplined more frequently were more aggressive and anxious than were children who were physically disciplined less frequently."

"However, in countries where the use of physical discipline was more common, being physically disciplined more frequently was not related as strongly to aggression and anxiety as it was in countries where physical discipline was less frequently used," she said.

Not surprisingly, in Thailand, a country where peace-promoting Buddhist teachings predominant, moms were least likely to spank their children or use other forms of physical discipline.

In Kenya, on the other hand, where use of physical discipline is common and considered normal for the most part, moms were most likely to spank or engage in similar disciplinary tactics. In a study conducted in Kenya in 2003, 57 percent of grandmothers reported caning, pinching, slapping, tying with a rope, hitting, beating, and kicking as forms of discipline they had used on their grandchildren.

One question the findings raise, according to Lansford, is whether being physically disciplined more frequently causes an increase in aggression and anxiety or whether children who are already aggressive and anxious are simply physically disciplined more often. "On the basis of other work conducted in the United States, the answer is probably some of each," Lansford said.

"Another question is whether physical discipline is appropriate in this day and age, regardless of how accepted it may be," she added.

SOURCE: Child Development, November/December 2005.

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I grew up being spanked by my parents with a paddle or with a belt, and I never thought of it as an abuse back then but now I do see it as an abuse, I rather parents to spank their children with their hands instead of spanking them with any type of objects....I turn out quite fine when I grew up, even it help me learn to respect my parents even more and follow rules....I didn't become more aggressive but I learn to behave myself more....

I personally think it's depend how frequently a parents physical spanked their child, then maybe they will become more aggressive or their behavior might change by being more angry...

I hardly spank my children anyhow, I usually grounded them more or take away their things.....
 
Yeah, same here when I was a child my mom or step father spank me with a belt right on my bottoms. I noticed my mom would ask me why I got spanked and assures me she loves me no matter what. That didn't help much because I can see my anger go beyond measure thru my growing years. I rather be talked to instead.

Still it's not a good idea to spank because it can lead to more frequent and it can inflict emotional or physical abuse.

It's best to talk to my son and refrain from something he loves to do, rather than physically punish him.

It teaches children it is ok to hit....
 
What people fail to understand is that if you agree with something, you are bound to try it for yourself.
If you believe in spanking, then by golly, you will spank.
If you believe in torture etc. etc., but that is another thread.
Does violence beget violence?
Well duhhhhhhhhhh......
 
I saw this story on Yahoo tonight. After all the posts about the girl forced to stand on the street corner, it will probably start another lively debate.

You made :gpost:, ITPjohn but :repost: because I created my thread over spanking children. We already debated agree to disagree in my thread.

http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20318


Perhaps Mod and Admin can merge your post on my thread because it relate on the same thing. :thumb: Is it okay with you, ITPjohn?
 
flyfishfemme said:
Yeah, same here when I was a child my mom or step father spank me with a belt right on my bottoms. I noticed my mom would ask me why I got spanked and assures me she loves me no matter what. That didn't help much because I can see my anger go beyond measure thru my growing years. I rather be talked to instead.

Still it's not a good idea to spank because it can lead to more frequent and it can inflict emotional or physical abuse.

It's best to talk to my son and refrain from something he loves to do, rather than physically punish him.

It teaches children it is ok to hit....

:werd: Communicate key is mainly important to make children understand what right or wrong. Why hurt children because they made their mistakes... The parents are suppose to teach their children what right or wrong, not punish them.

I know what it alike because I was emtional and phyiscal abuse by my parents and step-dad, also school.... Terrible... It make me aggressive and bitter more and more... They think spank to make children behavior which it's not really but they are SCARED and obey their parents because they don't want to get hurt... It got them become aggressive and low self-estreem... because they can't communicate with their parents open because they can't trust them case they will get hurt again.
 
You know something, Liebling? You make me cry.
It is not just your posts, the fact you are German, or any ole thing I was lead to believe. I just want to cry.
Why do I want to cry? Because of the children.
I saw them.
I saw them live and die.
All this talk is bullshit
Unless you see
That they suffer far more
Than you and me.
 
Beowulf said:
You know something, Liebling? You make me cry.
It is not just your posts, the fact you are German, or any ole thing I was lead to believe. I just want to cry.
Why do I want to cry? Because of the children.
I saw them.
I saw them live and die.
All this talk is bullshit
Unless you see
That they suffer far more
Than you and me
.

:confused:

The children suffer thru parent's emotional and physical punishment. I don't suffer my children like this.


All this talk is bullshit
What you beleive different is your own choice. ;)
 
"spanking" can be harmless. It can be just a slap on the butt to remind a kid not to misbehave.

It can also evolve, however slowly , from hitting with hands, to objects, to belts. Like when your stepfather decides you need to be taught a lesson about once a week, and beats you with his belt until you can barely move, regardless of what you did.

I spent eight years being spanked, then when that failed to have an effect, beaten within an inch of conciousness by the man my mother married. My grade five teacher got me out of there, and i spend five years in foster care. Those five years were the best time of my life, because my foster parents taught me there are other ways to discipline kids than hitting them.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO HIT YOUR CHILDREN TO BE A GOOD PARENT.

I now have a three year old, whom i never, ever hit. She behaves like most other three year olds, but time outs work far, far better than hitting her ever would. And as for the rubbish about not hitting in anger . . . it hurts just as bad if your parents are angry, or if they've "cooled off". The pain is the same.
 
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