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Personally, I LOVE ROCK music concerts and the more ROCK, the better! Play those drums, baby!!
The mother of the deaf boy in the topic probably didn't THINK about WHAT she just said! As Homer Simpson says, "DOH!" (Hand smacks forehead.) :roll:
Hearing people often make wrong assumptions out of ignorance. (I'm hearing, studied ASL 1 and 2 in college, and a Deaf Culture class. I've still got to practice, practice. I sign really slowly. :Oops: I don't understand VERY, VERY FAST pure ASL signers very well.)
Most of the older oral deaf adults I practiced signing with used some PSE and some didn't turn their voices off. (In my classes, we had to sign voice off. My community college's ASL video and book series were really hard for me to understand very well. It probably didn't help much that I found out my first time in ASL 1 that I was near-sighted and needed glasses!
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I took the class AGAIN because I wasn't happy with my grade.
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I read an article on the Internet about attempts to teach deaf children to play drums and enjoy music in a mainstream school district-I forgot where.
I think if kids like music (feeling the beat) or don't, at least they'd have a chance to decide for themselves.
I also read about a lady (she has a website, but I am terrible with names) who is a professional drummer and she is deaf.
I learned early on that some deaf people like music, but others, a few very ASL Deaf I have met, don't. I once had a deaf roommate who was very ASL and she didn't understand why anyone would like music without words (she couldn't hear it at all).
I had another oral deaf friend who would CRANK up the radio while she drove in the car, and she'd talk and sign at the same time while driving. (I admit it scared me the first time she did that, because I had never driven with a deaf person before. I kept thinking, "Eyes on the road!" because my driving instructor pounded that into my brain. I relaxed when I realized she wasn't going to kill us, and she is a SAFE driver.
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So I've been in the seat of someone who made a wrong assumption based on "hearing" culture rules. I am not saying this to offend anyone. I'm admitting my mistake.) She would drum with her hand in time to the music when we came to a stop.
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She said she couldn't understand the words, but she liked the feel of the beat and she could hear some ranges of the music.
My husband was raised in the US by Filipino parents. He can't speak Tagalog but understands a little. I've had some cultural misunderstandings being a "dumb American" a few times.
It takes patience and continued efforts to understand one another's point of view.
JM