So Sad News.

I am sorry about your loss. :(
 
RebelGirl said:
Sweetheart, I'm very sorry about your cousin's wife's passing. That's such a terrible loss. Did they find the definite cause of her death? Are they going to find out why she died? How did that happen? Did she die in her sleep or collapse? that's such a scary thought if it came from a Gastric Bypass. I thought about getting it but my dr. said I'm not fat enough to have one. I'm so sorry and I can't imagine what your cousin is going thru. sigh
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it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
 
RebelGirl said:
Sweetheart, I'm very sorry about your cousin's wife's passing. That's such a terrible loss. Did they find the definite cause of her death? Are they going to find out why she died? How did that happen? Did she die in her sleep or collapse? that's such a scary thought if it came from a Gastric Bypass. I thought about getting it but my dr. said I'm not fat enough to have one. I'm so sorry and I can't imagine what your cousin is going thru. sigh
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That's ok, I agreed that it such a terrible loss... And, honest they didn't find ANYTHING but suspect that it could be from Gastric Bypass by cannot eat. Example; you can't eat ANY of sweet food, can't eat ANY that cause you having the bloated, can't eat any of geasy food(that's so true!). Maybe she eat something that isn't allow for that kind of surgery, so maybe she died from that or having the stomach that is torn out. And, I think she died in her sleep because said late night, so maybe she died in her sleep but I have to ask my mom about it. How, hard to answer that question. Yes, it's so scared to having that... Understand, my mom and I know that any doctor would suggest me to getting one but I wouldn't allow that since I have an eating disoder(to gain up) so it's not safe for me to having that sugery. Honest, I was planning to get it but my best friend Gabrielle stopped me. Thank god for that.

FeistyChick said:
it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
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I agreed with you that it's very risky and can be deadly. You should thank god that your uncle stopped you and helped you out with that... Aw, Im sorry about your friend's brother died from that :(
 
FeistyChick said:
it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
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My boyfriend didn't want me to have one either. He said there were other options which he was right. I guess I got so sick of not being motivated enough to go to the gym. I work all the time so I just want to go home and rest. But I'm glad I didn't do the Gastro bypass. That is a big relief. How do I find a nutritionist? where do I look up in the phone book? What are the coverages and is it costly?
 
Sweetheart said:
That's ok, I agreed that it such a terrible loss... And, honest they didn't find ANYTHING but suspect that it could be from Gastric Bypass by cannot eat. Example; you can't eat ANY of sweet food, can't eat ANY that cause you having the bloated, can't eat any of geasy food(that's so true!). Maybe she eat something that isn't allow for that kind of surgery, so maybe she died from that or having the stomach that is torn out. And, I think she died in her sleep because said late night, so maybe she died in her sleep but I have to ask my mom about it. How, hard to answer that question. Yes, it's so scared to having that... Understand, my mom and I know that any doctor would suggest me to getting one but I wouldn't allow that since I have an eating disoder(to gain up) so it's not safe for me to having that sugery. Honest, I was planning to get it but my best friend Gabrielle stopped me. Thank god for that.

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Its so sad though. I have you and your family in my thoughts and hope for the best for your cousin and her kids. I know its rough and will be rough for a long time. I'm glad Gabrielle stopped you from doing it. thanks to her!
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RebelGirl said:
My boyfriend didn't want me to have one either. He said there were other options which he was right. I guess I got so sick of not being motivated enough to go to the gym. I work all the time so I just want to go home and rest. But I'm glad I didn't do the Gastro bypass. That is a big relief. How do I find a nutritionist? where do I look up in the phone book? What are the coverages and is it costly?
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hey girl ur body look fine and u dont look fat.. trust me girl!
 
FeistyChick said:
it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
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What kind of things did the nutritionist do for you?? smile it's not easy...They say if you are really happy with yourself it comes off nicely... just eat small portions lots of veggies and fruit as well excersing.. lol I don't even have that motivation unless someone kicks my butt to move it lmao..
 
Sorry to hear about Julie:( My thoughts & prayers go out to her & everyone in the family
 
I will keep your family in prayer especially for your cousin who lost his wife.
 
So sorry to hear of yur cousin wife passing away so young and he is lucky to have had the opportunity to have some precious time with her than never. May God bless her soul and give the family peace during their time of grieving.
 
I am sorry about your cousin death. I am sure God be with julie. She is far more young to die..
 
Agree FeistyChick

Yes any surgery to help overweight people to lose weight are dangerous, I saw a lady on TV interview show said that she almost die 9 times when she had a bypass surgery and she instead had to have it reversed back to normal and she's still alive...Never she said would go back to have it done, she suggested that anyone not to have that done either, too risky and too dangerous, not worth to lose life early age having that surgery...

It would be easy just to cleans your house, take a walk, watch the fats and drinks lots of cold water that helps burns the fats and live a simple life, nobody should hurry to lose weight, take it easy on yourself, don't be hard on yourself to lose the weight, take the flow and breath deeply and relax, I find that most women like us gained weight due to stress problems, I have it oh dear myself...

I've lost the weight, but I take it easy on myself not over stressed myself to lose the weight too fast, I go step by step and smile!!!

Eats Lots Of Vegetables & Fruit, less red meat or none, meatless is great and lots of water is important for the body, exercise and don't smoke!

FeistyChick said:
it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
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I'm sorry about your cousin wife, my thoughts and prayers to ya and the family.
 
FeistyChick said:
it doesn't matter if you are fat enough or not... this type of surgery is very risky and can be deadly...

i thought about it a few years ago too... but my uncle opposed the idea of me getting one- even though i begged him!!!?? he was SO STUBBORN AND SAID NO! :lol: cuz it was too dangerous... he wanted me to lose weight in the right/healthy way by changing my eating habits/eating well and excercising!!! i am so glad for my uncle who is a doctor who helped and guided me... he found a great and well-known nutritionist for me... who helped me lose weight... why not try a nutritionist? cuz this surgery IS TOO DANGEROUS FOR ANYONE! a friend's brother died from it last year too... it was very sad!
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Yes I second that.

If anyone who want to lose their weight then change their eating habits into healthy and more execrise....

I'm not for surgery who want to be diet...


I know from reading the magazine, the doctor recommend a fat lady to change her eating habits and more execrise first. It took her a year to lose her weight in her strong willing. She did it successful but the problem is her skin.... It look horrible to show her skin flabby due lose weight... (she was heavy weight). The pubic Health Insurance praise her for lose weight and agrees to cover the cost to remove her fat skin. She is happy... This is okay what she did, but surgery for losing weight? No!
 
RebelGirl said:
My boyfriend didn't want me to have one either. He said there were other options which he was right. I guess I got so sick of not being motivated enough to go to the gym. I work all the time so I just want to go home and rest. But I'm glad I didn't do the Gastro bypass. That is a big relief. How do I find a nutritionist? where do I look up in the phone book? What are the coverages and is it costly?
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I don't know about America but here in Germany... Check with Public Health Insurance. It cost nothing to learn about health nutritions.

Do you have health insurance? If yes, then check with them...
 
PePe LePew said:

It would be easy just to cleans your house, take a walk, watch the fats and drinks lots of cold water that helps burns the fats and live a simple life, nobody should hurry to lose weight, take it easy on yourself, don't be hard on yourself to lose the weight, take the flow and breath deeply and relax, I find that most women like us gained weight due to stress problems, I have it oh dear myself...
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Yes I'm agree with you on this. That's what I learn from 5 weeks spa about stress last year.

I've lost the weight, but I take it easy on myself not over stressed myself to lose the weight too fast, I go step by step and smile!!!
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Eats Lots Of Vegetables & Fruit, less red meat or none, meatless is great and lots of water is important for the body, exercise and don't smoke!
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But I disagree for not eat less meat... Eat red and white meat with low fat is important for your iron and build more protein in your body and help lose weight.
 
Sorry to hear about your cousin's wife. May she rest in peace. I will pray for you and your family in this difficult times ahead. :(
 
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