Wow..I learned something new today. I am at loss for words but here is a
There is so many people I know who are going through so much with their health so I just pray for a happy and healthy 2011 for all of you.
OHH Mrs B, that what ya have to deal with?? wow I really think ya will do it well enough and also your hubby must be really a wonderful person to assist with your daily pill work and others.. bless him...
just wow........Mrs. B, I did def learn about this condition, and it does sounds really painful.
How do you get it? Genetic factors? Etc?
Yes, I have that..I have terribly horribly super dry mouth and eyes. and other areas are affected, but with all things each person experiences it differently..I hope you are able to find something that helps for you.
I learned new something about it. I hope there is something that soothe for you and everyone who have same ones because they deserve good lives out there.
I learn new something everyday and try to learn how to cope or find something to soothe so share with others too.
I am sorry to hear that, Mrs. Bucket. It's a terrible disease. I know a friend of a friend who also has Sjogren's Syndrome. No fun!
Here is a from me.
OB for saying exactly what I needed to hear.
You and I are alike. I don't live in fear of this and dislike it when people walk around on eggshells when they are around me. Some people will treat me as if I am a precious piece of glass and I will tell them outright not to do it again. It's a terribly uncomfortable feeling for both the person and for me as well.
Naturally my walking will become slower and the gait will become pronounced. I take care of that myself by bringing the resources to alleviate the pain ie. having a backpack for water bottles and using a walker helps.
I go shopping when the mall hours aren't the most busiest. We prefer to cook at home so I can limit the sodium intake as well as enjoy what we eat.
The best secret I can tell anyone in this same situation that is married as well. Always keep the romance in the relationship. Communicate everything out with your partner and you both will be very happy in the bedroom too as well.
You brought up a vital point- pet companionship. All our furkids are beautiful communicators and confidantes. They cuddle a lot and know when I feel down-right lousy, they will cuddle with me. All three of them; it's the best feeling in the world!!
Mrs Bucket,
Thanks for being open about this and for educating us on this terrible condition.
I admire you for doing your best to look on the positive side of life and enjoy it while it lasts. You're blessed to have a nice man like your husband on hand to help you though this.
Cheers
I often wake up feeling stiff and sore in most of my joints. Fatigue also figures into this. Fibromyalgia is a disease that relapses and remits; meaning that there are times when I feel relatively fine. The pain levels go way down and I function somewhat normally.
So, for me, minimizing triggers is important. This could be anything from stress, physical illness (If I have the flu, the joint pain ends up increasing 10-fold), and, changes in the weather. By that, I mean a drop in temperature, barometer, or, just about anything. My body is also VERY temperature sensitive to the cold. When cold, my muscles stiffen, which makes me hurt even more (think of being already stiff, and having an external source stiffen an already stiff body....It's not fun).
It's one of the reasons I moved to FL 13 yrs ago. I was pre-diagnosis at the time, but by default, I made things a little better by moving. My body still reacted to the higher humidity causing pain, but, the barometric issues lessened as the barometer remains relatively constant here (except when there's an approaching tropical storm or one within 500mi from here). Tropical weather causes the barometer to drop rapidly and that brings on an onslaught of significant pain for me.
This is a long winded way of saying that I practice a LOT of good self care. I educated myself about my illnesses, made necessary changes, and am coping reasonably well. I still have days where getting out of bed is the LAST thing I want to do, but, I do it. I also have two very sweet kids that I watch in the afternoon--my niece and nephew. Along with the furkids, I have the human ones that always bring a smile to my face. In coping with all this adversity (and even more that's not relevent to this thread), I've learned to look to things that make me happy and bring me joy.
It helps.
aww that is cutes! I notice your really seems soft great impressive!
smile and happy! you are happy! how was your day feeling well? Hope be you suffer! hope pretty sound help you! I remember your friends hugs! sad SJS is very suffer!
Hi Travis, thank you so much for the very sweet words of encouragement. Yes, we'll always be friends and yes, SjS is a sad disease but I always look for things that makes me smile. Lil'Bit makes me smile because he loves to snuggle with me.
I have wonderful friends here and IRL that supports me. They are amazing people and I love them very much.
Thank you Travis. May God bless you.
Today I woke up with a terribly sore body and a throbbing headache. I just knew what triggered the pain, it was my fault. I allowed myself to be stressed out.
Thank you to you-know-who for PMing me your concern and noticing the difference in me. I am taking time off from the board to focus on my health.