aweet_princess I mainly thought of you when I saw this on TV but am posting it here with the thought that others will be interested also. This is from Channel 4 (the CBS station) out of St. Louis, MO and Fenton is a suburb. There is video included which has captions that you need to turn on if you want them. There is an error in the recorded captions that was not in one of the rebroadcasts that I saw. The dentist did not get a CI until she was 30.
http://www.kmov.com/story/32505787/fenton-dentist-office-dedicates-day-to-giving-deaf-people-a-smile
no im just stating in the end, the choice has to remain yours, or by definition its not your choice.
if one gives another person the final word, by definition they are relinquishing choice.
You have to be specific in what you are saying. Because now I am truly confused.
Either I am an idiot and against medical doctor advice decide to implant useless ear "because in the end the choice is mine",
OR I listen to someone who is qualified where I am not, and go with professional advice. So which it is?
Fuzzy
the "which is it" is entirely up to you...that's what actually having choice means..
choice doesn't mean blindly following a professional at their whims..especially when those very professionals have large stakes in the very products being pushed..
NO
that's not choice at all.
choice means you have the power to decide and YOU decide..
so the myth of it goes...
I think you backed yourself into a corner. Your reply make no sense to me.
Because what you are saying is - I should decide whichever ear I want to implant not the doctor,
even though I have no medical training whatsoever, and deciding this upon myself I can actually seriously harm myself.
Fuzzy
I
the last word belongs to the doctor
im in no corner. not at all.
my statements have rested on your choice of words you stated this.
all i was stating was in regards to this statement.
if someone other then you, ie the doctor has the final word as you claim, then by definition you do not have that choice, the other person with the final word does.
think it through using the standard english definitions of the words..
anyway
Yes, exactly, I was referring to the fact that it needs to be a doctor who chooses which ear is more suitable for implantation.
Pray tell me Hoichi, why should I be better qualified to do that?
Fuzzy
You could have stated that right away clearly, because I was relating to the "which ear" ever since you said "if you let the doctor chose.." etc.Hoichi: its not one of qualifications . qualifications are important int he process of actual making the choice. yes indeed.
when we talked about "ear"but int he end freedom is freedom and the choice if it is a choice must rest with you
You could have stated that right away clearly, because I was relating to the "which ear" ever since you said "if you let the doctor chose.." etc.
Unnecessarily muddying discussion with unrelated subject, particularly with
when we talked about "ear"
only confuses the point, and the whole rigmarole could have been avoided long ago. try to keep in mind this, please, at least with me
as I am very linear conversationalist
Fuzzy
no, really? I was serious, I AM very linear, so if say one thing and in the same breath add another I treat it as the same and it confuses me. so if you are also serious we truly could avoid too many going in circles
and, thanks
Fuzzy
wow...
now thats a face i haven't seen in a long time...
Hi ambrosia!!
hope your doin wicked....
But mostly because it's the side that the best exposure to speech. From what I understood learning to hear with a CI was hard enough. I wanted that leg up implanting the ear that the nerve had the most exposure, the ear aid been relying on most.
I would do again too. I understood speech right away and spent 0 time rehabbing. I just wore the thing and went about my business and listened.....and understood. I'm not convinced my experience would have been as easy if I had chosen my "bad" ear.