I don't think she was asking anyone to make decisions for her, but to weigh in on what you think she should do, what your experience has been, and whether or not you think her request of the district was unreasonable, as others had told her.
But, looks like cause for celebration!
Very similar to my reaction. The idea that an exchange viewpoints can often make a person think of something they wouldn't alone. Bouncing ideas off each other can result in ideas that none would think of alone. I am not sure how clearly I am expressing this.