First of all, the question was not addressed to you. It was directed at a specific comment in the post to which I replied..
This is a public board anyone can reply to your post, isn't that what you said to me too? Hypocrite.
First of all, the question was not addressed to you. It was directed at a specific comment in the post to which I replied..
This is a public board anyone can reply to your post, isn't that what you said to me too? Hypocrite.
This is a public board anyone can reply to your post, isn't that what you said to me too? Hypocrite.
Perhaps you would like to respond to the question in post 279.
And what is it you are armed with, my dear? I'd like to see evidence of you being armed with anything valid.
what am i armed with? EXPERIENCE! my LIFE. my own deafness. and observations of myself, my therapist, my family and my friends (both deaf and hearing). everything I have been posting. this is all valid!
if u are insinuating that this isn't valid, i find that very offensive.
when someone shares a personal experience of theirs, and u throw facts in their faces that's contradictory, its hard to not take it personally. and that is why i (and probably quite a few others on here, not that i'm trying to speak for others) feel insulted.
More absurdity in an attempt to deflect. Your bra size has virtually nothing to do with the fact that deaf children are being undereducated.
Post 279? I have not added anything to my posts regarding literacy rates and overall functioning rates because I don't look at statistics, like you do. My posts are directly about first-hand experience, and about my belief (as I've stated many times already) that what applies to a group (statistics-wise) does not necessarily apply for an individual. Have you forgotten that each deaf child is an individual and needs their own individual plan to help them succeed? While I am not, in any way whatsoever, promoting that a parent have their child be sign-only (or vice versa, e.g. oral-only,) maybe for that child it was what worked best. Statistics and rates do not tell all.
what am i armed with? EXPERIENCE! my LIFE. my own deafness. and observations of myself, my therapist, my family and my friends (both deaf and hearing). everything I have been posting. this is all valid!
if u are insinuating that this isn't valid, i find that very offensive.
when someone shares a personal experience of theirs, and u throw facts in their faces that's contradictory, its hard to not take it personally. and that is why i (and probably quite a few others on here, not that i'm trying to speak for others) feel insulted.
Oh, that's great, Cheri. You can respond to posts directed to other people just to give yourself an opportunity to engage in juvenile name calling, but you can't manage to respond to direct questions that have been addressed to you.:roll:
Yet u just compared deafness to cancer in an earlier post. cancer too, has virtually nothing to with deafness.
How about first-hand experience? That's something you do not have, you have to take excerpts from research and second-hand experience in what you saw/experienced through your son. Don't knock us for firmly believing in what we can do, see, and experience because we've been there and done that, our very personal selves. You can't say that for yourself. In these past several pages, many of us deaf people have made excellent and valid points that you simply just cannot refute, statistics or not (and you will try, I know, but you will not succeed.)
You have still failed to understand that singular experience is not valid for setting educational policy for the group. Step outside yourself.
This is a public board anyone can reply to your post, isn't that what you said to me too? Hypocrite.
You remark concerning Shel and I is totally uncalled for..
Here is my problem with statistics. You don't get the FULL picture when you do statistics, you do when you listen to someone with one on one experience. For example, let's say you start an extensive study/poll in a deaf university and you ask them the usual "What method, what age did you develop literacy skills, what age did you develop speech skills, on a scale of 1-10 are you happy with the method?"
You come up with the conclusion: "Bi-Bi environment shows the best success rate for the deaf who have obtained college level education"
You forgot to do one thing. You forgot to ask the deaf people OUTSIDE of the college. You forgot those who didn't have the developmental skills to go to college. You forgot those who didn't go to a deaf school.
I prefer a handful of full experiences over statistics that can be interpreted in different ways and/or forgot to account for everything.
Alleycat already acknowledged her mistake and she apologized, but was it really neccessary to start flaming her for it? I think not.