That's great for Sallylou- I have lots of respect for attorneys. I say that in all sincerity too. I've always considered becoming an attorney. The ability to make things right, when an injustice is present is the greatest skill of all.
Yes, her education absolutely is the priority. That's why we are doing what we're doing. If it goes to DP, then she will be in a placement that won't meet her needs as a deaf student, but it will be a placement.
You don't have to share my confidence regarding this issue. I know that ultimately, this child will get placement at this school.