I'd just like to say again, thanks for the support.
The service was yesterday, and it was just really beautiful. I sat in the first pew with my uncle, my aunt's mom (not my grandma), her mom and my cousin Breanna. They sang "Just as I am" and "Amazing Grace." Along with a poem my grandpa wrote about her back when she was 10 months old. I cried, and so did everyone in that pew. It was just really moving. Makes me sad just to think about it.
112 people came (as the register book thingy said) and that alone is a surprising number. Most were friend's of Kathy (Robin's mom), etc.
I dont know what else to say..
Oh - the reason my aunt's mom is not my grandma.. is that my grandpa divorced my grandma and later remarried Kathy. They had 2 children - my aunt and uncle. If you want to get specific, she's my grandpa's 2nd wife, married and divorced before I was born. She'd be my step-grandma, but to me she is Kathy