i was very close to my mom till she passed away and i was very close to my sister till she became a mother and now things are kinda changing for us both cuz both of us are growing up in different way and we need to find a way to adjust to it. my sister is now more of mother rather than sister and that kinda annoys me sometime lol and i m just starting college this year so.. maybe in future we will grow close again. (my sister and i love each other very much just that we now have too much on our minds to give any time for each other) i could understand about her being busy with her two very young children and im trying to give her time heh