Relationship

Why don't you take a break from boys. You don't neeeed a man to complete you, fill some void, cling to, whatever. Just concentrate on Nicole for a little bit, do yourself a favor there. Truly, you don't have to change boyfriends quite as often as your underwear.
 
WakeyNicole said:
He is back with his ex-fiance.
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I bet you heard the expression ' two heads is better than one' , well you where getting good advice from a lot of heads and you choose not to take it.
If you do not want advice from people you should not waste their time asking for it.
 
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Relationships are a commitment that's why so many break up.
 
ambrosia said:
Why don't you take a break from boys. You don't neeeed a man to complete you
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I'm just one guy but I have to say it's a big turn-off when a girl is codependent. It's much more attractive if she WANTS me not NEEDS me. :cool2:
 
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Reba said:
Are those the only times the two of you met together? According to those dates you've known him less than two months yet you've gone thru the whole cycle of romantic (off-and-on) life. Unbelievable! :giggle:
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I didn't read the first post , good grief! Thank you for the heads up . Totally young love or young lust lol
 
A Nihilist said:
I'm just one guy but I have to say it's a big turn-off when a girl is codependent. It's much more attractive if she WANTS me not NEEDS me. :cool2:
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I been trying to tell Wakey this, men like women to be independent today. I am too independent and some guys do not like that. She is still very young
and has a lot of growing to do , we do not know everything about her so we should not judge her. I just hate to see her waste time on the wrong guy when she could be out having fun.
 
you know Nicole, relationships is a BIG have, i mean its not that important any more, why do you think there's ten -fold divorce rates in the last twenty years?? that's simply because people no longer know what it is. and got news for you, you don't know it either!!...
hell I don't and I don't wanna know either, its a social disease from the 18th to 20th century...

Today's 'Life experience currency is in bonks, not banks, and how many times a week, not how many children you have!!!...
notice the difference??!

i give up on you, maybe All deaf isn't giving you what you wanted, hell go to 'iwantarelationship.com' instead see if this any better
 
I know one huge mental issue that WakeyNicole got... Its called "Insecurity" Sad!

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damn does anyone remember Matajan? lol they'd make a great couple :giggle:
by gosh i got to stop being so mean....but heck I even know it this IS Matajan hell bent on giving us a hard time?
 
Hmm, I could agree with that, LOL yeah! :giggle:

Grummer said:
damn does anyone remember Matajan? lol they'd make a great couple :giggle:
by gosh i got to stop being so mean....but heck I even know it this IS Matajan hell bent on giving us a hard time?
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Grummer said:
you know Nicole, relationships is a BIG have, i mean its not that important any more, why do you think there's ten -fold divorce rates in the last twenty years?? that's simply because people no longer know what it is. and got news for you, you don't know it either!!...
hell I don't and I don't wanna know either, its a social disease from the 18th to 20th century...

Today's 'Life experience currency is in bonks, not banks, and how many times a week, not how many children you have!!!...
notice the difference??!

i give up on you, maybe All deaf isn't giving you what you wanted, hell go to 'iwantarelationship.com' instead see if this any better
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I do take exception to your statement about long-term commitments. Yes, divorce is a growing problem but there are still many, many long-time successful marriages. TCS and I are one such couple, and our daughter and her husband have just had their 20th anniversary. I have many friends who have been married 30, 40, 50+ years.

I agree that Nicole is way too flighty for anything serious at this point. (Also, serious relationships have to be a two-way street; one person's obsession for another is not a "relationship.")
 
diehardbiker said:
Sure! Here is your caramel flavored popcorn! Enjoy while this drama lasts.
:cool2:
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Last night I had some Boy Scouts' Trails End Original Caramel Popcorn but I couldn't cruise AD at the same time because my fingers were sticky. :giggle:
 
Reba said:
I do take exception to your statement about long-term commitments. Yes, divorce is a growing problem but there are still many, many long-time successful marriages. TCS and I are one such couple, and our daughter and her husband have just had their 20th anniversary. I have many friends who have been married 30, 40, 50+ years.

I agree that Nicole is way too flighty for anything serious at this point. (Also, serious relationships have to be a two-way street; one person's obsession for another is not a "relationship.")
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Nicole is only 18 yo according to her profile and she is still a teenager . She has a lot growing to do as we all did when we where that age . Some people mature faster than others and some people just never seem to grow up at all. I have neighbors that been married 50 years and one was married 60 years when her husband dies. Both my sisters been married about 30 years too. People do get married older today than our parents or grandparents as people live longer.
 
whatdidyousay! said:
...People do get married older today than our parents or grandparents as people live longer.
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Maybe. My mom was 22 when she married my dad who was 27 years old. Their first child (me) was born five years later. I was 21 when I married, and my daughter was 19. We seem to be going in reverse. :giggle:

I do my family's genealogy, and to be honest, of the hundreds of wedding records I've seen, there have been no young teen brides. Even my Pilgrim ancestors married mostly in their early 20's.

Maybe it depends on the region where people live.

I hope I do live longer than my parents. They each died in their early 60's and I'm already 62. I don't have much time left. :(
 
Reba said:
Maybe. My mom was 22 when she married my dad who was 27 years old. Their first child (me) was born five years later. I was 21 when I married, and my daughter was 19. We seem to be going in reverse. :giggle:

I do my family's genealogy, and to be honest, of the hundreds of wedding records I've seen, there have been no young teen brides. Even my Pilgrim ancestors married mostly in their early 20's.

Maybe it depends on the region where people live.

I hope I do live longer than my parents. They each died in their early 60's and I'm already 62. I don't have much time left. :(
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I am talking about people today, they're getting married older than when our parents did. My mom was born in 1915 she was 25 yo when she got married and her parents where starting to worried as women where married by the time they where 21 yo. People got married younger because their life expectancy was only about 45 -47 years. There where 8 kids in my mom's family and one of her sister dies when she was only 20 yo and mom had 3 brothers that dies young too. My mom was the only child in her family to live 93 years. She out lived her whole family. I know where you live made a difference how long you live. And I really believe how you eat matter too.
I was at a neighbor's house when I lived in Calif. and she was cooking fried chicken and it was in lard . My neighbor was cooking this for her second husband, her first husband dies of a heart attack and so did her second husband.
 
Reba said:
I do take exception to your statement about long-term commitments. Yes, divorce is a growing problem but there are still many, many long-time successful marriages. TCS and I are one such couple, and our daughter and her husband have just had their 20th anniversary. I have many friends who have been married 30, 40, 50+ years.

I agree that Nicole is way too flighty for anything serious at this point. (Also, serious relationships have to be a two-way street; one person's obsession for another is not a "relationship.")
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yep, that's so spot-on
 
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