Rejection

The one thing that I remember the most was when I was dating my girlfriend. Somebody was treating her bad and not showing respect to her. I got in a fight with that guy and I won the fight. My girlfriend went to that guy and said

" How could you hit him ? "

I told her that he was abusing her and talking very mean to her, taking her arm. Why pull her arm for what?

She wanted to help him even though he was going to beat the hell out of her for something that she said to him.

She was so upset that I came to her defense to protect her but was not upset he was going to beat the hell out of her. She knew I never abused or did anything to her at all.

She told me to get out of here!!! She was crying and having a bleeding heart for that guy.

I was shocked and angry at her disloyalty. I broke up with her right there on the spot and stormed off.

She tried to ask then beg for me to get back with her.

" Hell No !!! You wanted that guy and not me. I told you I would help and make sure you are okay. You have no loyalty. You sold me out. It is over. I don't take sh*t over that !!! "

One night she showed up on my doorstep with a bloody face and black / blue eyes and broken skin on her face. I warned her over and over to leave that guy if he is beating her up and I did not welcome her into my house because I had a new girlfriend which we had been dating for more than a year and she was loyal to me and that another girl was not very loyal to begin with.

My new girlfriend kicked her out of my house after I repeatedly told her to leave and she knew that I would not hit her so my girlfriend got in a fight with her and she never saw me ever again. I never was sorry over that even though she tried to manipulate and put a guilt trip on me and tried to mess with my head when I knew the facts clearly did not match up with what she was saying and what was happening in the situation with her. She suddenly found herself without me that fast overnight because of her disloyalty. I had no sympathy for her. She dated that guy for 3 years before she finally gave him up for another guy. I dated her for about 7 or 8 months. I was not gonna put up with any of her messed up games at all and she knew it too.

The last I heard of my old ex-girlfriend was dating someone who still is not good to her.

As of right now I am still single. My girlfriend that I dated with had to leave for college and we parted our ways on good and positive terms.
 
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Does this remind you anything ? Look:
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That's why TRUE Love is very Rare and hard to find !!!
 
Reiko said:
I would cry if I was rejected like that. :tears:
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if that happens well thats just life.

shit happens *pats ur back* that guy wouldnt be any better than you when he rejects you anyway.
 
when I first found out I was going deaf. I went home and told my wife. Two months later she file for a divorce. We were married 4 years 8 months.
 
Well, Heath

When men beat up women, some women don't know any better to leave, love can be blind sometimes, Some people fall in love some for all the wrong reasons some for all the right reason. Who said anyone was perfect? That doesn't mean you cannot be her friend, You turned your back on her instead of helping her. I didn't say you had to go back with her but be her friend not shutting her out. It's a calling for help Heath. Have a heart.


I've been rejected a few times by men, who thinks I'm too good to be with them when they never gave me a chance the first place, or doesn't want a long distance relationship, Long distance should not be a factor, If love can do anything, You can work on it.
 
I did want to help her but by then my new girlfriend was so fed up with my ex-girlfriend.

I admit I also was fed up with my ex-girlfriend after I tried to explain over and over again plus she follow me around alots with my new girlfriend.

She kept finding ways for my new girlfriend and me to break up so she can be back with me. She did many things that I can't believe she did.

I had to stand my ground and ask her to leave my house.

If she did not follow my new girlfriend and me around so much then I would have been in a better position to help my ex-girlfriend.
 
smspell said:
when I first found out I was going deaf. I went home and told my wife. Two months later she file for a divorce. We were married 4 years 8 months.
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she's only divorcing you just because your going deaf? :ugh:
 
smspell said:
when I first found out I was going deaf. I went home and told my wife. Two months later she file for a divorce. We were married 4 years 8 months.
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:mad: @ this girl divorcing.
 
The*Empress said:
Revenge!!!!!!

Same thing with that Jeff guy at Gallaudet, he lead me on and then he said, "you think I will leave my gf for you!?"


Revenge on those kind of people, and make sure they learned their lesson when they play with people emotion.

Go lie to cop and say he raped you.

And see how much that hurt and he'll understand to never hurt women again.

Now he is a good boy, married and have a child with her and treat her right.

Yay!!! :smash:
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Go lie to cop and say he raped you??? I DISAGREE WITH YOU PAL! That would cost your and his life! The D.A. could cost your life for lying to the cop, etc...don't revenge...that isnt mature way to do this...
 
smspell said:
when I first found out I was going deaf. I went home and told my wife. Two months later she file for a divorce. We were married 4 years 8 months.
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That's terrible! I am so sorry that you had to go through this painful divorce! Obviously, she did not take the wedding vow as seriously...the promise vow is about sickness, health, so forth...

Could you tell us how did you become deaf? and how old did you become deaf? just curious...
 
Cheri said:
How do you feel when a guy or a woman rejected you when you care about this person and want to be with this person, and he nor she lead you on, then later rejected you, How do you feel? Discuss please. :mrgreen:
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Cheri, I feel depressed, rejection and try to understand why this person rejects me...why this person hurt me, so forth...but I try to remember that this person has a problem, not me! ;)
 
coloravalanche said:
Cheri, I feel depressed, rejection and try to understand why this person rejects me...why this person hurt me, so forth...but I try to remember that this person has a problem, not me! ;)
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I know how you feel, It's not you, It's that person because you were rejected without even giving a full chance to see how sweet person you are and caring. It's this guy loss for not giving you time to show yourself what type of person you are. :hug: I've been there, done that myself too.
 
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