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How do you feel when a guy or a woman rejected you when you care about this person and want to be with this person, and he nor she lead you on, then later rejected you, How do you feel? Discuss please. :mrgreen:
 
I feel like i just put my whole trust into somthing that wasn't worth it. Betrayed for them leading me on. not good enough. yea so on and so forth some things i also have to think about is with hearing people were they turned off because i am hoh?
 
Oh Yeah I know what you mean CountryGal, With me I hate players, men nor women who lead women nor men on and make them develop feelings and then later rejected them. I avoid men like that in all level.
 
Lil_country_gal said:
I feel like i just put my whole trust into somthing that wasn't worth it. Betrayed for them leading me on. not good enough. yea so on and so forth some things i also have to think about is with hearing people were they turned off because i am hoh?
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Maybe it's different because I date women, but I've found that being deaf has only been a problem VERY few times.

For the times that it has been a problem, I'm glad it was a problem because I wouldn't have wanted to go out with a woman like that in the first place.

In fact, I find that it can actually be an asset. There's a whole genre of women out there who are curious about what it'd be like to date a deaf man. Usually they're new inductees to the world of the deaf. Many of them are wonderful people.

I go crazy over the ones who dance. ;)

In the big picture, though, it doesn't really matter if I date a deaf woman or a hearing woman. There are so many things that make a person special that I really can't imagine picking someone based on whether or not their ears are on vacation.
 
I never had a problem with being deaf when it comes to dating, because I've dated most hearings than deaf. I guess it is because I've been around with more hearing people in school since I've been in mainstream pretty much through my childhood years. They never looked at me as an issue as being deaf. They accept me for who I am. I guess every person is different. ;)
 
Feeling unwanted to communcation their feeling turns into embrasement.. :dunno: or advantage you for being using you...
Gladly I did dump one hearing guy who pretend be relationship w/me.. and found out he's using me all the rest few months.. I made decision.. Good Bye to you.. He shocked.. and upset knew I'm right along.. better off! When I was teenager..
 
It has never happened to me before so I :dunno:
 
Yes, it has happened to me before. I have gotten rejected a few times, even when I liked that person and cared about her. At least I'm glad that I have my sweet gf...Sweetheart! :D
 
I've rejected most hearing guys than they rejected me.. I just can't seem to bond easily with hearing men. So, I've basically dated deaf guys most of my life except a few hearing. They seem not to be interested or maybe its because I won't talk to them and give them a chance. I refuse! I just feel more comfortable being with a deaf guy. no offense to hearing guys. I just had thoughts about being with a hearing guy.. like.... hearing me snore, breathe, any movements I make, etc. I've rejected most men than they've rejected me.. my bad.. this guy used to really like me alot, was desperate for me to be his girlfriend and I wasn't interested.. hmm yes he's hearing and an interpreter. :dunno: why...
 
Revenge!!!!!!

Same thing with that Jeff guy at Gallaudet, he lead me on and then he said, "you think I will leave my gf for you!?"


Revenge on those kind of people, and make sure they learned their lesson when they play with people emotion.

Go lie to cop and say he raped you.

And see how much that hurt and he'll understand to never hurt women again.

Now he is a good boy, married and have a child with her and treat her right.

Yay!!! :smash:
 
I felt very broken in my heart when few of guys rejected me BUT honestly, Im very happier since I found Sequoias which he is very gentleman and everything what I want in him. :dance2: :giggle:
 
Rejection ? Nah - it's the opposite. They want me back ! :lol:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Revenge!!!!!!

Same thing with that Jeff guy at Gallaudet, he lead me on and then he said, "you think I will leave my gf for you!?"


Revenge on those kind of people, and make sure they learned their lesson when they play with people emotion.

Go lie to cop and say he raped you.

And see how much that hurt and he'll understand to never hurt women again.

Now he is a good boy, married and have a child with her and treat her right.

Yay!!! :smash:
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Just be careful when you revealed someone s name here because I think I know who you are referring to.... :nono:
 
Some men in India burn up their wives alive if they refuse to accept rejection.

Divorced wives in India have to move back home with their parents, if they have no parents, they have to be slaves or be homeless.

Yall seen that on Oprah?

Make me think that men are terrible. :topic:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Revenge!!!!!!

Same thing with that Jeff guy at Gallaudet, he lead me on and then he said, "you think I will leave my gf for you!?"


Revenge on those kind of people, and make sure they learned their lesson when they play with people emotion.

Go lie to cop and say he raped you.

And see how much that hurt and he'll understand to never hurt women again.

Now he is a good boy, married and have a child with her and treat her right.

Yay!!! :smash:
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...and they say revenge is a dish best served cold...but for you, you didnt have revenge, you have stupidty in you.
 
I have been there, done that.. I don't want to discuss it.. too painful.
 
i have been rejected by guys like they sees other women behind my back GRR

why they do that to me for i didn't do anything to them sheesh
 
Steel X said:
...and they say revenge is a dish best served cold...but for you, you didnt have revenge, you have stupidty in you.
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I know why he did that, I told a white cerebral parsley guy, Mike, that I want a tall handsome good looking dark guy.

And he felt rejected by me....

And all of a suddenly a black cerebral parsley Jeff, who match the type and he rejected me over and over again... Making my self esteem lower.... Playing dangerous game with my mind... Breaking my heart.

And I found out that he was Mike's friend, doing him a favor....

And Mike kept popping in my life, wanting me to finally give in to be with him.

Why I wanna be with Mike, after he watched me being hurt and he went out his way to try to get what he wanted?

I am not stupid, I got my revenge, he never had me, haha, nah, Mike, you didn't have me!!!! I met a guy who looked so much better than Jeff and we had a good time.

Nah nah.
 
Been there, and I generally get rejected easily. The last time was really devasating. At least I can say it is all over. After hearing Cheri's story about how she thought all men are the same. I started to realize the real reason for Bitch K dumped me is that she thinks Im abusive guy just like all other guys. So she decided to dump me before she thought I'd abuse her. Too bad she stereotyping guys and no wonder why she can't find a decent guy. Anyway, Cheri told me that she learned the hard lesson for stereotyping all guys as cheaters.
 
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