DeafAlex
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SO I"m pretty sure I've decided to go ahead with a CI. My hearing is deteriorating even further, and while I wouldn't mind being completely deaf, I am realizing how much it is cutting me off from my family. My siblings and their spouses are home visiting from another state. I only see them twice a year unless someone gets married or graduates. I can't manage conversations that are more than one-on-one or one-on-two, because I rely on lip-reading to decipher what I'm hearing with my Naida. This results in me being completely lost in group conversations and games (we play a lot of board games). My family tries, and they mean well, but they don't live here full-time and so aren't used to not looking away from me, not covering their mouths, not getting in my line of sight to get my attention, etc. It's unreasonable to expect 4 people who I only see 3-4 weeks a year to become fluent in ASL, same for my extended family. But I don't want to be separated from them. So I've decided to go ahead with a CI. The plan is to get all of the testing and appt's done this semester, and then get the implant(s) at the beginning of summer, in order to give me plenty of time to recover and focus on rehabilitation. I've already decided I'm going with the Cochlear device, for many reasons, so I don't need to worry about that. All there is to do now is choose a hospital and make that first appt I've been evaluated before, but I had changed my mind. We don't want to go back there because they were awful, even accusing me of faking being deaf even though my ABR had no response Anyway, I just wanted to update here and ask for any support and advice you have. I received and went through the Cochlear packet, so I'm fairly well informed, but there's not much in the packet about the process, mostly just the device and rehabilitation.
Thanks all, ALex
Thanks all, ALex