Holiday Update: I'm not cooking the turkey because a family member wants to fry a turkey at a local bar while drinking beer. Classy. I've never had fried turkey. Are they bad? It seems silly and unhealthy to me.
So, now I am ordering side dishes if and when I get a final count.
Botti, if I don't plan the holiday, family members will plan nothing in advance and expect us to do whatever they demand at the last minute. A lot of passive aggressive behavior. :roll:
One holiday, hubby told family members that we weren't attending the family celebration because they couldn't behave themselves. Now, family members behave better but it's under duress. Always a lot of tension. Whee, this will be so much fun! :P