Question for Matajan (and others if you want to reply):

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Matajan: Do you speak to your father/close friends often about your difficulties finding a woman you want to marry? This does not include anybody at AD, but people in real life. For all we know, you're full of it and moderators aren't doing anything to address the obvious repetition, so, that's why this thread came up.

"hard to understand". What part do you think is making it difficult for women to understand you?

You didn't answer some of my previous questions either just yet. Gotta give more info about yourself if you want help.
 
Frisky Feline said:
I know the couple. It was a great story SHORT. On my first day of being in the college life, yes on the very first day, I took my bags out of my parents' car and walked into the hallway of the dorm building. The young guy who was the same age as me. Interesting, that I never forget his words. He simply told me, pointing at her through the window where the blonde chick was outside talking to her parents. He said " That blonde chick is what I wanted to be with for a long time". I was like nodding him because i have never seen him before and haven't talk to him before. I thought it was a little weird but thought maybe it was his guy things, such as just one stand night or something like that. Guess what, they actually hit it off either on the same day or the next day. Yeppers, they are still together to the day, yes they are married. so Love at first signt can happen to some certain peoples.
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it happens at ivy league, mit, stanford, northwestern, georgetown
 
Frisky Feline said:
I know the couple. It was a great story SHORT. On my first day of being in the college life, yes on the very first day, I took my bags out of my parents' car and walked into the hallway of the dorm building. The young guy who was the same age as me. Interesting, that I never forget his words. He simply told me, pointing at her through the window where the blonde chick was outside talking to her parents. He said " That blonde chick is what I wanted to be with for a long time". I was like nodding him because i have never seen him before and haven't talk to him before. I thought it was a little weird but thought maybe it was his guy things, such as just one stand night or something like that. Guess what, they actually hit it off either on the same day or the next day. Yeppers, they are still together to the day, yes they are married. so Love at first signt can happen to some certain peoples.
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Sounds creepy to me. :laugh2:
 
Jiro said:
well - I've had love with Ivy League girl and regular educated gal. Let me tell you this. I prefer the Ivy League girl because she gives quality fellatio as if she has an advanced education :eek3:
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Uh oh Shelia..better watch out!
 
craigm26 said:
First, it doesn't matter what college you went to; if she really cares, she's probably a gold-digger. Unless that's what kind of woman you're looking for? See, the only really good reason to really care about what college you went to is A) Pedigree, B) income potential and both are sometimes viewed as shallow indicators of a "succesful marriage", which to some people is just a tax benefit and for others it's a really great relationship that spells out happiness for a lot of people.

2. ahhhh, the great "why is she staring at me?" flinch. When you feel like you brain gets jolted and/or your heart gets jolted and your heart starts pacing up that's a really good sign you're attracted to her. If you can tell she's into you, which takes some practice, you'll be able to tell within a few seconds if she wants more. If it's uncomfortable but progressing, that's a really good sign.

3. Romance. When she starts telling the story of how you and her met or she's describing you to other people, or she's actually telling you, it's romanticized. For example, she wouldn't say something negative like "he had spinach in his teeth and when I kissed him I threw up". It is socially unacceptable to purposely sicken someone when trying to tell a fun, romantic story.

What do you think marriage is?
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Sorry to say this. Really. $20 bucks what you just said zoomed way over matajan's head and he ain't coming back for it. Guy has a limit to how much he can read ya know?
 
Jiro said:
well - I've had love with Ivy League girl and regular educated gal. Let me tell you this. I prefer the Ivy League girl because she gives quality fellatio as if she has an advanced education :eek3:
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not with you though :eek3:
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No wonder matajan desperately wants an Ivy chick :laugh2:


Sheila, go apply to the Ivy League quick:giggle: JK JK
 
To answer the original question: I believe in interest at first sight. Love takes time to develop. Believing in love at first sight leads to a lot of people getting married before they actually know, and consequently love, the person they are with. Hence the tremendously high divorce rate we have.

Keep in mind...emotional dependence is not love.
 
If I ask a girl, "where does she go to?"

She will say, "Brown".

Would I tell her that I am interested in contact with her? phone number?
 
matajan said:
If I ask a girl, "where does she go to?"

She will say, "Brown".

Would I tell her that I am interested in contact with her? phone number?
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Maybe you need to quit asking girls where they go.
 
Jiro said:
they looked down at my junk and that's how they knew it was love at first sight.
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Not without a
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matajan said:
If I ask a girl, "where does she go to?"

She will say, "Brown".

Would I tell her that I am interested in contact with her? phone number?
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Go ahead and see what happened. You have a lot of ex-girlfriends. Sound like you have no problem finding another girlfriend.

so why do you keep asking us about girls? that means you've never had a girlfriend.
 
Jillio: you forgot to advise matajan that Dr Phil has a book called Love Smart. Read and follow his advice. He wrote it 5 years ago. It probably is in the public library.Also check out his website: drphil.com

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Jillio: you forgot to advise matajan that Dr Phil has a book called Love Smart. Read and follow his advice. He wrote it 5 years ago. It probably is in the public library.Also check out his website: drphil.com

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Is Dr Phil part of the Ivy League? :laugh2: Did he go to Harvard? If yes, matajan should read. My advice listen to Jiro LOL
 
Sigh. Matajan. Get real help from a professional. You're not going to get it here. That's not to say AD isn't great it's that your problems/questions are of a nature such as that and we no longer want to endure any more new threads based on your perceptions. You're 24. Be a man and grow up.


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