Question about marriage

Handsome_Smiley said:
How about the husbands and wifes that one works while the other stays home and take care of the kids? My wife is a stay at home mother and wife. She makes no income for herself. All my income goes to bills and things we want and need for the family and self
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The stay at home wife / mom does work. But yes, there is not income as a result. You should still discuss your finances with each other and epsecially if its a big purchase. Like others have said here, it's about having open communication and honesty in the relationship.
 
rockdrummer said:
The stay at home wife / mom does work. But yes, there is not income as a result. You should still discuss your finances with each other and epsecially if its a big purchase. Like others have said here, it's about having open communication and honesty in the relationship.
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Yes I'm agree with you on this.
 
It is good idea to have like that. I don't know anything about marriage and Im just interested at their facts how to save the marriage etc. It is important to have like that.
 
As a christian, I would have to first discuss it with my husband(if I was married) if he says no than its no. He's the leader of the home and as a wife I need to respect his answer. That's me, others might disagree with me that's fine. I am only giving my views to this post
 
ilvocean said:
While you are married, if your spouse go borrow loan, debt, or credit cards WITHOUT your permission then what would you do?? I have seen many people got divorced because of these dumb money problems. How would prevent from it happening to you?
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I don't think that would even happen, If I get married, I'll make sure we both agreed on the terms of sharing, helping one another out and asking for permission. I believe in communication, if one takes money from me without my permission I'll be upset. I wouldn't do that to my future husband, If I need to borrow money I'll ask, I won't take anything that is his without getting his permission first-hand. ;)
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Yes true...

The reason is protect people´s life...

Example:

A husband wants to get loan to buy a sport car but his wife reject... Bank can´t give him a loan without his wife´s signuature.

It´ll be worst ifBank agree to give a husband one loan without wife´s signature - fighting to end their marriage. That´s why the bank would not do that.... only if they have both married couple´s signature...
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I agree it has to be COMMUNICATION to deal with money issues as that's what they say marriage problems all rely on MONEY problems. I do believe that both to discuss any big purchases with each other cause it will ruin the trust with each other... This should be done before married to be discussed.. I do believe that chip in your pay the same amount to an account for all the bills and a separate account for their own personal things... Everyone needs to be straight with each other about everything that goes in your marriage... Like some with one income like a wife stays home taking care of children that's a Job but no income... smile...
 
Oceanblue7 said:
As a christian, I would have to first discuss it with my husband(if I was married) if he says no than its no. He's the leader of the home and as a wife I need to respect his answer. That's me, others might disagree with me that's fine. I am only giving my views to this post
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What if the husband is an asshole and over controlling? I have seen cases where my girlfriends believe in the same thing as u do and then their husbands taking advantage of their beliefs to control them fully. Like my friend wanted to take herself and her kids to the public pool to join me and her husband said no. I am like :jaw: Life is too short for that BS. But if your husband is reasonable and doesnt abuse your beliefs then that's no biggie but if the husband abuses that then I want to :rl: to the hubby.
 
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