Q about bank sperm

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coloravalanche

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Has anyone experienced with bank sperm?

I've decided to declined my relationship with men! My ex husband did a very good job destroyed my previous relationships since my divorced...

Anyway...I am thinking about getting bank sperm because of my age! Im 38 and my clock is ticking...soo...

Im little confused the differences between two options...one option is that when a couple who cant get preggy...that the dr will give a woman surgery and put her husband's sperm inside of her vagina in order to get preggy...

Second option is that alot of young women gets preggy by donation sperm...they dont have to ask the guy but to search for guy's background so forth then make arrangement for dr to give a woman sperm from the sperm donation...hope this make sense?

This is the second option that I want....I dont know where to search on google about this issues..how do I find these research?

Thanks for your help!
 
In-vitro fertilization is one option. This is the same thing that is done for women with their own husband's sperm or donated sperm. The ovum (egg) is harvested from the woman and in the lab, the technician fertilizes the eggs with the sperm then a doctor places them back in the woman's uterus. Usually they do a few at a time to increase the chances of a viable pregnancy.

Many women opt to "do it the old fashioned way" by having sperm placed directly in the uterus or near the cervix in the vagina when they are most fertile and hope fertilization takes place. Some people even do this at home with donated sperm and you will sometimes hear this called "turkey baster" method, because that's essentially what they use to have it done. If you have a friend who would be willing to donate sperm, this can work too and maybe a lot less expensive. Many women have done it this way and it has worked just fine. You have to be certain the sperm doesn't die, and sometimes you want some of the legal aspects in writing.

I would suggest you research these two options on-line.
 
MorriganTait said:
In-vitro fertilization is one option. This is the same thing that is done for women with their own husband's sperm or donated sperm. The ovum (egg) is harvested from the woman and in the lab, the technician fertilizes the eggs with the sperm then a doctor places them back in the woman's uterus. Usually they do a few at a time to increase the chances of a viable pregnancy.

Many women opt to "do it the old fashioned way" by having sperm placed directly in the uterus or near the cervix in the vagina when they are most fertile and hope fertilization takes place. Some people even do this at home with donated sperm and you will sometimes hear this called "turkey baster" method, because that's essentially what they use to have it done. If you have a friend who would be willing to donate sperm, this can work too and maybe a lot less expensive. Many women have done it this way and it has worked just fine. You have to be certain the sperm doesn't die, and sometimes you want some of the legal aspects in writing.

I would suggest you research these two options on-line.
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Ok...I also heard that when women are willing to get preggy by donation sperm...these women can get offered by receiving $10,000? is this true? thanks!~
 
coloravalanche said:
Ok...I also heard that when women are willing to get preggy by donation sperm...these women can get offered by receiving $10,000? is this true? thanks!~
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If you want in-vitro fertilization method, you have to pay $10,000 or more for techician to do it. Most insurances won't cover the costs of in-vitro fertilization processing.
 
Well I have experience with the sperm bank with my ex wife.... Yes some insurance do accept to help like they pay round 75 % and u pay 25% of cost some insurance do accept provide ya free if u pay over 3,000 dollars in full coverages ....

And ask someone in person to donation their sperm to u is very very sticky legal issues if u want to ask me more questions pls feel free to ims me in yahoo ... And I will be more than happy to give u the advices or explain why is it so sticky legal issues so u can understand better from pro and con ...
 
coloravalanche said:
Ok...I also heard that when women are willing to get preggy by donation sperm...these women can get offered by receiving $10,000? is this true? thanks!~
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No, I think you are confusing two things. Women who donate eggs to an infertile couple can earn money.
 
Go bar and get drunk.. pick out a cute guy.. and have night stand.. then kick guy out..

wont see him.. till you are pregnant.. your choice to find him or keep yourself. :)
 
As a man, I would never "donate" my sperm at a sperm bank . . . never will happen! Do you know of any guys that would be willing, for a fee of course, to lay with you and get you pregnant? At least you would know who the father is.
 
pek1 is absolute right.

I watched on 20/20 news about a doctor gave his sperms to several different mothers without know it. He has about 40 children from different families. It is horrible. He is in the prison. It is impossible for anyone to proof that the sperm is really yours.

I would suggest you to find a right man in the reality.

I hate to rude you - I think you are little too late now because you are 38 years old. When you turn 65 years old, your kid would be 27 years old. Actually, I don't have children, and I even don't want to have one.
 
webexplorer said:
pek1 is absolute right.

I watched on 20/20 news about a doctor gave his sperms to several different mothers without know it. He has about 40 children from different families. It is horrible. He is in the prison. It is impossible for anyone to proof that the sperm is really yours.

I would suggest you to find a right man in the reality.

I hate to rude you - I think you are little too late now because you are 38 years old. When you turn 65 years old, your kid would be 27 years old. Actually, I don't have children, and I even don't want to have one.
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The ages doesn't matter how old the parents turn once the kids grown up.... I don't mind at all as long as it bring us the joy no matter how old we are since I still want to have kids asap myself as I am 37 years old and I am full aware of the ages where the kids being grown up while that point reach the retirement ages or something like that I really don't mind at all as the kids bring us the joy feeling than feel poop and hurt to watch another peoples got their kids and say to myself where heck is mine ?? We (parentless) want to be joy and proud to raise kids and I recall that there is 55 years old I think got a preg and it doesn't bother her but it bring her life lift up the joy that what make life feel great to share no matter what !! How dare are u trying to put us down like that comments ....
 
And look at doofusmama she is older I think she is 40 years old and she got 6th children and she is way proud of it and ages doesn't stop her to get another kids ....
 
Just telling you my opinion - forget the anonymous donor. Have sex with someone you know.

Now that we have so many children born out of sperm banks wanting to meet their biological fathers and that is so unfair. It's human nature for them to want to know their biological parents. I would want to know who my biololgical father even if my biological mother was a terrific parent. It's important to know their history, biological and cultural.

Right now, we don't have all the information we need in our DNA and our family history is the best indication of our health. It will change soon though.
 
netrox said:
Just telling you my opinion - forget the anonymous donor. Have sex with someone you know.

Now that we have so many children born out of sperm banks wanting to meet their biological fathers and that is so unfair. It's human nature for them to want to know their biological parents. I would want to know who my biololgical father even if my biological mother was a terrific parent. It's important to know their history, biological and cultural.

Right now, we don't have all the information we need in our DNA and our family history is the best indication of our health. It will change soon though.
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I can understand what u were talk about .... Let me say something else about it there is two way to say to the kids why is that come from sperm bank is that the " adopt" father can't have any children and would be proud to raise like their own to have the family so the kids would feel appericate and accept how it goes and another reason for single mother who has been tap on their toe on the ground to try to make the bait to claim man to be in their life and raise but all sudden man walk out and not give her preg and how long will women have to wait for man to be willing to be part of life ooorrr some women doesn't want to have anything with women like fed up with jerk guy so she can go ahead and get preg from sperm bank and lift women's spirit up and feel good ....

Also get drunk guy to get her preg would probaly not success like the guy see something that they don't want to do anything with her for some reasons ,,,, so the kids will understand the point of view and probaly would feel so graceful to be alive and have someone who being there for them .... If kids doesn't have the chance to get know who is biogology father but they will meet him in the heaven in the automatic why worry about it ??
 
I know the drug addicted gay man who use to live next door to me, he
donated his sperm for years to the sperm bank and turns
out he knew he had H.I.V. and was doing this anyway.

I am no expert on the subject but you really need to check out
how safe that would be because there may be a possibility you
could get a little more than you bargained for because you'd
think the sperm bank would be a little more selective in who they
allow to donate.
 
I support bank sperm only if a husband who has an infertility and unable to father to his children with his wife.


webexplorer said:
pek1 is absolute right.

I watched on 20/20 news about a doctor gave his sperms to several different mothers without know it. He has about 40 children from different families. It is horrible. He is in the prison. It is impossible for anyone to proof that the sperm is really yours.

I would suggest you to find a right man in the reality.

I hate to rude you - I think you are little too late now because you are 38 years old. When you turn 65 years old, your kid would be 27 years old. Actually, I don't have children, and I even don't want to have one.
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No matter how age is.. .Important is healthy. I notice mothers between 35 and 40 years old have babies... Of course 50 years old as well... My friend has healthy child at age 43 and my co-worker's wife had 3rd child at age 48... They are all healthy...

Why should you worry about age? As long as they are healthy... Remember that age is only number.... :thumb:

coloravalanche,

what about adopt babies? They deserve good home. It's just my suggestion.


 
I understand what you mean about the parent's age. But, I saw elder parents holding 4 years old girl at the movie theater. I could not believe it. I feel sorry for the girl to deal with the old parents. The parents are about 60 years old. It might be a problem for her, but not the problem for the parents. That's a big difference. -- It just like if when the girl is in a teenager age, she will ask herself where are my mommy and daddy, and why they died so early (obvious old age).

Maybe, you might consider adopting a child or two. Whatever you decide which is the best for you. Good Luck!
 
ROE said:
I know the drug addicted gay man who use to live next door to me, he donated his sperm for years to the sperm bank and turns
out he knew he had H.I.V. and was doing this anyway.
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Sperm banks use rigorous testing and other procedures to ensure the material does not pass disease to the recipients. Making statements like this is needless alarmism.
 
knightwolf68 said:
And look at doofusmama she is older I think she is 40 years old and she got 6th children and she is way proud of it and ages doesn't stop her to get another kids ....
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That's right!!! Thank you for comments.. but its getting more and more intersting when the kids get older like... my oldest daughter and I went to deli store, the guy thought my oldest daughter is the mother.. ROFL! after I told him that I am mother of 6 kids, the guy said NO way!!, you look like 25 or something.. I was go like OH THANK YOU!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!


ROFL.. it wasnt first time..... first time was almost 3 years ago, the Store clerk thought oldest daughter and I were sister.. but i was pregnant with 6th. the store clerk shocked... LOL

:)
 
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