whitestages
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No, not at all! I was merely clarifying what I had said because I felt like some of my words had been taken to be offensive, and that's definitely the last thing I want (considering the nature of the thread). I was simply being honest with how I felt and thought by explaining my own motives a little further it would help clear up some of the miscommunication of intent I felt had occurred.
It's true that telling us what is acceptable behavior (because we really can't relate at all, we're not deaf, so sometimes we have to rely on other ways in which we may be minorities to understand but they're not always accurate; for example I'm a triple minority on certain counts but I would never imagine that my experiences are comparable to what a deaf person may face). I'm also sorry to you if you felt that I was bashing the tone of some of the posts. It's merely that when I read the responses I noticed that people had taken a note of offence to my words and I felt that I needed to clarify so they wouldn't have those feelings - that I'm really trying to learn as much as I can and I'm still very new at this.
It's true that telling us what is acceptable behavior (because we really can't relate at all, we're not deaf, so sometimes we have to rely on other ways in which we may be minorities to understand but they're not always accurate; for example I'm a triple minority on certain counts but I would never imagine that my experiences are comparable to what a deaf person may face). I'm also sorry to you if you felt that I was bashing the tone of some of the posts. It's merely that when I read the responses I noticed that people had taken a note of offence to my words and I felt that I needed to clarify so they wouldn't have those feelings - that I'm really trying to learn as much as I can and I'm still very new at this.