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Kristina, agree that skipping people don't need a parking place. I'm frustrated with people who don't understand that I'm struggling even though I look young and fine. Like you, I get accused of exaggerating or faking it. Kristina is one if the few people who really understands what I'm going through. Thanks, Kristina, for your understanding and support. Doctors are not helpful and medical appointments only end up in frustration. I wish that I could find a medical test that proves I have a certain medical condition. My lung function test showed poor lung function and MRIs showed bone erosion. Maybe a metabolic difference is causing all of these seemingly unrelated problems. I'm tired and frustrated just like Kristina. My response was not specifically directed at her because she's my friend. Just throwing info out there.
 
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Kristina, agree that skipping people don't need a parking place. I'm frustrated with people who don't understand that I'm struggling even though I look young and fine. Like you, I get accused of exaggerating or faking it. Kristina is one if the few people who really understands what I'm going through. Thanks, Kristina, for your understanding and support. Doctors are not helpful and medical appointments only end up in frustration. I wish that I could find a medical test that proves I have a certain medical condition. My lung function test showed poor lung function and MRIs showed bone erosion. Maybe a metabolic difference is causing all of these seemingly unrelated problems. I'm tired and frustrated just like Kristina. My response was not specifically directed at her because she's my friend. Just throwing info out there.

I understand. My husband had health issues (stroke, heart, etc) that made it hard for him to walk far. He had a handicap placard.

One thing I have mixed feelings about is when a healthy person is driving the car and parks in the handicap parking place...if it's reasonable for that person to drop off the handicapped person at the curb and park in a regular parking spot. I know I did this with my husband 99% of the time.
 
For me, it's not the age of the HC parker, but how they move. It's frustrating for me when I can't find a HC space when I have my son, so I have to find a farther space to get out his push chair, only to see someone walking very easily to their HC parked car.

It irks me if these types can walk all through the store, but somehow cannot walk the extra few yards to a parking space. It's harder when you have equipment to deal with... and I'm always afraid someone will back into my son's chair while I'm getting him in and out of the car.
 
I understand. My husband had health issues (stroke, heart, etc) that made it hard for him to walk far. He had a handicap placard.

One thing I have mixed feelings about is when a healthy person is driving the car and parks in the handicap parking place...if it's reasonable for that person to drop off the handicapped person at the curb and park in a regular parking spot. I know I did this with my husband 99% of the time.

I used to drive my ex MIL around when I visited her. We would park in the HC spots and she would use her hanging tag. It was easier than pulling up to the curb because it took a bit of time to get her up and out of the car (this was back when I had some muscles to show for it). Then the rest of traffic would just have to wait for her to cross to the side walk. Each step was a hop and scoot. And then she would stand at the entrance for a minute or two to catch her breath. Then we would try to get one of the scooters for her. She refused a wheel chair which was fine with me. When I was driving her around, I made sure there was no place I needed to be. Shopping with her could be an all day experience. But then she would take me to my fav restaurant for dinner - Alamo Cafe in San Antonio Texas. nom nom nom!!! :drool:
 
LoveBlue, my husband does drop me off when he takes me. I often go out alone, though. I can't have him drive me everywhere all of the time.
 
I am technically MIL's driver, but it's getting to the point where I am beginning to have problems driving. She is no longer legal to drive and neither is my mother. My kids are technically drop-outs with this home school stuff and in Florida that means they can't get a driver's license until they are 18, or back in school.
 
I have a HC tag. Very seldom use it. When I was having brain issues hubby could not drop me off because I couldn't understand that he was coming back for me:-( now that I am starting to drive myself would only consider using it in an emergency. You are allowed to park downtown free of meter charges with a HC tag. So even healthy looking people may need the use of HC. You never can tell I guess by just looking at some of us.
 
I would never judge by appearance whether or not someone deserves the handicapped parking hang tag or license plate. There are way too many disabling conditions that aren't obvious to the observer. Also, as an observer, I don't always know which person in a carload of a people is the actual card holder. Handicapped people can ride with able-bodied caregivers, family members, and friends.

Now, someone who dares to park in a handicapped/disabled marked spot without displaying the hang tag or license plate is another matter. That's a definite no-no.
 
I would never judge by appearance whether or not someone deserves the handicapped parking hang tag or license plate. There are way too many disabling conditions that aren't obvious to the observer. Also, as an observer, I don't always know which person in a carload of a people is the actual card holder. Handicapped people can ride with able-bodied caregivers, family members, and friends.

Now, someone who dares to park in a handicapped/disabled marked spot without displaying the hang tag or license plate is another matter. That's a definite no-no.

Agreed. Cardio and pulmonary diseases are often invisible. Also, people are picking someone up that is in need of the access.
 
Do any of you that need one for yourself have a preference for the hang tag or license plate? I at one time got in a discussion with a cousin about them. She qualified for one long term after a bad auto accident and preferred the plate with the idea being that it was not as likely to be stolen. While I thought the tags are more useful as they can be moved from vehicle to vehicle to be able to use it when the person who's it is is riding with someone else. One of our cops, whom I had known from grade schools days, said that is what they did when his mother needed one for that very reason — they used it in different cars when different family members were doing the driving.
 
These are the rules for disabled plates and placards in SC:

DISABLED PLACARD AND PLATE FACT SHEET
1. The new disabled placard and license plate law requires that all disabled placards have photos on them by January 1, 2013, or by the expiration date of the placard, whichever comes first. Current non-photo placards are valid until they expire under the following conditions:

a. Placards that have not yet expired can be replaced by the S.C. Department of Motor Vehicles (SCDMV) after January 1, 2009, but they will expire December 31, 2012, regardless of the original expiration date, in order to comply with the new law.
b. Any non-photo placards issued on or after September 28, 2009 will have the expiration date of December 31, 2012 written on them. The expiration date will not coincide with the placard holder’s date of birth shown on the driver’s license.
c. Placards with the expiration date of January 1, 2013 will not be valid after December 31, 2012, and must be replaced with a photo placard prior to that date.

2. SCDMV will begin issuing new photo-ID disabled placards after January 1, 2010.

a. A photo of the individual to whom the placard is issued will be included on the placard.
b. Only one placard will be issued per person.
c. Permanent disabled placards (blue) must be renewed every four years.
d. The current placards will be replaced as they are renewed, but all placards
must have a photo-ID by January 1, 2013.
e. The new Form RG-007A, Disabled Placard and License Plate Application,
will be available in SCDMV field offices and online at
SC Department of Motor Vehicles in December 2009.
f. Customers can make application for disabled placards in any SCDMV branch
office, but the placard itself will be processed at SCDMV headquarters and issued to customers by mail within 10 business days of application.

3. Temporary disabled placards (red) may only be issued to individuals whose conditions are expected to last a minimum of four months and a maximum of one year.

a. A photo of the individual to whom the placard is issued will be included on the placard.
b. Only one placard will be issued per person.
c. The new Form RG-007A, Disabled Placard and License Plate Application,
will be available in SCDMV field offices and online at
SC Department of Motor Vehicles in December 2009.
d. Customers can make application for disabled placards in any DMV branch
office, but the placard itself will be processed at SCDMV headquarters and issued to customers by mail within 10 business days of application.

4. SCDMV will issue disabled placards and license plates with certificates that must be carried at all times by the individual or organization to which the placard or plate was been issued.

a. Individuals
i. The placard certificate will include the name of the person to whom
the placard was issued.
ii. For disabled license plates, the plate registration certificate will
contain the names of the persons in the household who are certified as
disabled and eligible to park in disabled parking spaces.
iii. Each person in the household who needs to be listed on the registration
certificate must complete the new Form RG-007A, Disabled Placard
and License Plate application.

b. Organizations
i. The certificate will include the name of the organization to which the placard was issued.
ii. For disabled license plates, the plate registration certificate will indicate that the organization is eligible to park in disabled parking spaces.
iii. Organizations must complete Form RG-007B, Organization Disabled Placard and License Plate Application, and are not required to certify with a physician.

5. The new forms will be available in SCDMV field offices and online at SC Department of Motor Vehicles in December 2009.

6. Customers who currently have permanent disabled placards will have to recertify their disability with their physician before their current placard expires in order to obtain a photo placard.

7. Because placards will not be issued in field offices. SCDMV recommends that customers obtain certification at least 30 days before placard expiration.

8. The new law redefines the eligible medical conditions for disabled placards and plates:
a. The inability to ordinarily walk 100 feet nonstop without aggravating an existing medical condition, including the increase of pain.
b. The inability to ordinarily walk without the use of a brace, cane, crutch, another person, prosthetic device, wheelchair or other assistive device.
c. A restriction by lung disease to the extent that the person’s forced expiratory volume for one second when measured by spirometry is less than one liter, or the arterial oxygen tension is less than 60 mm/hg on room air at rest.
d. A restriction requiring the use of portable oxygen.
e. A cardiac condition to the extent that the person’s functional limitation are
classified in severity as Class III or IV, according to American Heart Association standards. If the patient’s status improves to a higher level (i.e. as a result of surgery), the patient no longer meets the criteria.
f. A substantial limitation in the ability to walk due to an arthritic, neurological or orthopedic condition (i.e. coordination problems and muscle spasticity sue to conditions that include Parkinson’s disease, cerebral palsy or multiple sclerosis).
g. Blindness.
 
Do any of you that need one for yourself have a preference for the hang tag or license plate? I at one time got in a discussion with a cousin about them. She qualified for one long term after a bad auto accident and preferred the plate with the idea being that it was not as likely to be stolen. While I thought the tags are more useful as they can be moved from vehicle to vehicle to be able to use it when the person who's it is is riding with someone else. One of our cops, whom I had known from grade schools days, said that is what they did when his mother needed one for that very reason — they used it in different cars when different family members were doing the driving.


I personally like the hang tags for the reason you stated. Also when my dad was alive and in a wheel chair I drove him to doctors appointments in my car because it was bigger. So being able to switch the tag from car to car works best for our family.
 
Do any of you that need one for yourself have a preference for the hang tag or license plate? I at one time got in a discussion with a cousin about them. She qualified for one long term after a bad auto accident and preferred the plate with the idea being that it was not as likely to be stolen. While I thought the tags are more useful as they can be moved from vehicle to vehicle to be able to use it when the person who's it is is riding with someone else. One of our cops, whom I had known from grade schools days, said that is what they did when his mother needed one for that very reason — they used it in different cars when different family members were doing the driving.

Here the rule is (I think, but it was like this in Missouri), if you only have 1 vehicle, then you get the plate, but if you drive multiple vehicles, then you get the hanging placard. I prefer the hanging since I will drive any one of 3 or 4 vehicles. Also, if I have a friend drive me, then we take my hanging placard.
 
Uh, never mind. I haven't got any real gripes at the moment. lol
 
My pet peeve is my allergies...went to the dr about them because of the cat. She is concerned that I could develop asthma so she prescribed a nose spray that blocks the triggers. So far it works but the side effect is very very loud titannus. Why was I born with allergies? Ugh!
 
My pet peeve is my allergies...went to the dr about them because of the cat. She is concerned that I could develop asthma so she prescribed a nose spray that blocks the triggers. So far it works but the side effect is very very loud titannus. Why was I born with allergies? Ugh!
Because your mom was scared by a dust bunny before you were born? :shock:
 
Because your mom was scared by a dust bunny before you were born? :shock:

Perhaps. :lol:

I blame it all on my dad because he has them too. I take every opportunity to let him know that whenever I have a bad day to pick on him. He gets them so bad during the spring in AZ. For me, it is more of the animals but when I was growing up, I would get them so bad in the springtime in AZ. However, here in MD, they havent been too bad which is strange. Since getting the cat, they have returned full force. GRR!
 
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