pets and a new relationship
i just met my current girlfriend and like, i dont understand, shes got pets inside, and i have never had pets in the house before, it bothered me a bit when i was dating a girl in the past, and i felt selfish to imply that i didnt like it...sleeping in a room whare hair and an "animal" scent was evident.
im sorry but, when i moved into my current house, i had a back pantry that had a dog in it prior, and it took months to get the smell out...its really bothered me..and it was on concrete.
this whole talk about animals and sex is fine, i agree, its not something i want to have around me, pets in the bed room while im having sex, but like...we both have kids....our attention span is limited and while were bothing working, taking care of kids, and still trying to maintain a healthy relationship, should i feel bad for having the idea that perhaps pets in the bed room isnt healthy, and not just for our "health" but for our intimate attention on one another and everything else?
somehow i feel this might be an issue, but i want to know your opinions before i get a home with her, and find out its an issue.
how do i break my feelings to her?
thanks,
KJ