as you know, I've said earlier this past summer that my mom'll be divorcing my soon-to-be ex-stepfather because she was tired of him controlling her, treating her like an idiot, calling her names, verbial abusing, physical abusing, emotional abusing, etc...as he was like that with her 10 years and finally decided to pull the plug and leave him for good, which I find something to say "FINALLY! now we can move on with our own lives!" you know I never really trusted him that much for the past 10 years after he hit me, threatened me, and yell at me like some kind of shitty macho bastard of the house, etc...the worst time ever (nearly 6 years ago) was after my grandfather's funeral he went berserk when he told a preacher that the burial ground looks too small for my grandfather and then my mom told him to hush and then he just made a stupid face at my mom, "I'm trying to talk here!" then around night time when we go back to my hometown, I was sleeping in the back of the van while I hear mom and tony yelling and screaming like crazed moneys wanting more food, etc...as I try to sleep, I still couldnt sleep because of his yellings going though my ears I finally get up and tell him to SHUT THE FUCK UP! then my mom turned around and said "dan stop please just get in the back and keep resting" then tony went "what?! what did he say? what did you say?! you want a piece of me?!" etc...he just keeps on yelling and threatening me as I can't take it anymore he just wants me out of the van and ditch with my sister's car as my sister is following us in her car to hometown though, then later on, my mom wanted to get into my sister's car because tony just threw a fist in my mom's mouth, leaving her mouth bleeding and nearly a broken tooth in her front, then when we finally got home, mom told us to get into my brother's room since it seems more safe there and then when tony got home, my mom was wrong...it's not safe at all.
tony broke down the door, then stared at my sister for a few seconds, then my sister told him that if he doesn't calm down and leave, she will call the cops then tony started threatening my sister then ran up to her and I ran up to him from behind, jumped on his back, and put my feet on the wall between my mom and my sister and trying to pull tony away from them, then he slammed me against the left wall, and hit my elbow and I fell, then andrew started kicking tony and told him to get the fuck out, he grabbed andrew and threw him into the kitchen and started kicking him as hard as he can and any more kicks, he would've get broken ribs, so I looked around quickly and found a bat and I picked it up and ran to him as he was shaking my mom and I whammed him in the head as hard as possible but no luck so he got up and I run off to find somewhere that has small space and cover myself into a "shell"
tony ran to me, grabbed my shirt and ripped it, and kept hitting me perhas 4 or 5 times and anymore hits, he would've crushed my skull. my mom grabbed tony and screamed at him to stop and he wouldn't listen...he just keep hitting me and I tried to get up, but he just drags me down and hits me some more 'til he feels that it is enough...my head was so sore and my ear that he hit was in so much pain and I couldn't move my neck correctly but thats when I finally ended the fight after tony yelled at my mom saying that his head hurts so much that he can't fight anymore now...thanks to my weapon of choice, the bat. even though it was useless, but it did him quite alot of damage. my brother and sister and mom weren't really injuried but I was the one who's the most injuried. sore elbow, sore neck, sore ear, and very sore head, etc. I really thought I was gonna die when he was about to break my head open. it was one of the scariest moments I've ever had and it was just right after my grandfather's funeral. damn...so the cops came and then they didn't arrest him but told him to leave the house and he did. the cops also wrote a report on this berserk shit. the next day, my mom wanted to divorce tony but then tony begged her to give him another chance and work it out and that he wants to get as much help as possible for his anger and his behavior, etc...but sadly, even though I love my mom and she is really a good woman and good mother and all, but she was foolish enough to give him another chance. I would never give anyone another chance after such an attack like that. My mom and tony went to many therapies, even talked to the preacher that they married with, and talked them out and when he's back in the house with us *roll eyes* he still gets mad and yell at us but no physical violence or verbal abuse just yet...but afew months later, he went on verbal abusing my mom with very little mistakes that she makes, making her look like a worthless wife he ever had, etc...he always say shit to my mom like, "you are a sorry wife." "you stupid bitch!" "I'm not your damned ******!" (it comes to mind that tony is possibly a racist :roll: ) "I know why your two other husbands left you." "you fucking cunt!" etc...then tony've done afew physcial abuse as well...when tony's mad at mom about something at night while they are in bed, he tells her to get off the bed and go sleep on the couch my mom said no then tony repeats and she still says no and he blew the fuse, and kicked my mom out of the bed, then she had to go sleep on the couch. there were afew times when he pulled my mom's hair and tell her what he wants, then do it right away when I wasn't even around at that time. there were times when he would throw some dishes on the floor and those dishes were gifts from my relatives to my mom. there was one time when he smashed his wedding ring with a hammer then my mom had to waste $60 for another ring. I was so suprised that tony has actually hurt my mom more than he has hurt us and I'm just so damned pissed that I just to grab a gun and stuff it in his mouth and blow his brains away because I dont let anyone fuck with my mom and if someone fucks with my mom, then they fuck with me also. then this summer, tony went nuts again and called my mom a fucking cunt after my mom just got home from graduation when she had to intercrept for the deaf kid there and he got mad at her thinking she didnt do much work around the house when she was REALLY busy as hell so my brother andrew finally stood up and told him to shut the fuck up and apoloize to my mom and then he was like "we'll see about that!" and he quickly got up, and my mom rushed in to protect my brother, tony grabbed y mom's arm and twished her from behind and threw her to the couch and then he threw his fist toward my brother's eye and it left him a black eye and a cut and he he fell. after that he just went to sit down and keep on watching some TV. So after that day, we left the house for good. Tony has failed miserable for his marriage with my mom and he's out of our lives for good. My mom is a damned great mother and a very beauiful nice smart woman and if it wasn't for her, I wouldn't even make it through high school, help getting me a car, and even some help getting me some more clothes, food, and many more for my needs and alot of things for what I want, surely she loves to spoil me lol but I'm just very damned happy to have someone like her as a mother because she's very open minded and lets me say whatever I want in my mind and is very strict with me about treating women right and dont treat them the way tony treats my mom no fucking way! I'm irish and most irish mothers teach their boys to be very nice to ladies lol. my mom has been married three times and yet, it's not entirely her fault that she has failed three marriages. her first husband had an affair behind her back...her second husband (my real dad) was a complete physco and is a heavy smoking addict, etc...and then my stepfather was much, much worse. an raging, uncontrollable, stupid ignorant ape! so now my mom is still seeing other people and she decided not to be married EVER again, even though after 3 times was really enough for her and she just wants to be friends with a guy for now. right now, my stepfather is still suffering from cancer and is now in a hospital in Penn with his sisters watching over him. tony and mom are now legally seperated, so that's good news...well for me that is. I dont really care much about tony anymore and it's not like I want him to die or anything but I just want him to leave us alone and thats all I ever want just for the rest of our lives. we now have some peace and quite with no name calling, no verbal abuse, no physical abuse, no threats, etc...with my mom, my brother, my sister and me, just as mature, calm cilivized human beings we just like it that way.
now, I ask you ladies...would you give your husband a second chance after he just called you a fucking cunt? because "cunt" is the filthiest and ugliest word anyone can come up with and nobody and I mean NOBODY would ever say such a word to my mom or else I just split his thoart and he would never talk again.
your opinon?
