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People should make more of an effort to understand the deaf community
My dad marches in with frustration on his face. He sets down his keys and tells me that our favorite movie theater has stopped showing captions. Both my parents are deaf, so having a captioned theater nearby has allowed them to see new releases. Also, being able to go to a captioned theater has allowed us to spend more of our time together as a family.
To get to the bottom of this odd situation I decided to call the theater and ask why they discontinued captioned movies, preparing to hear some ignorant response about how other customers were complaining that the captions bothered them. However, in this case, it was a simple error of the machine that projects the captions. They had had problems multiple times and didn’t want to offer something that wasn’t reliable, but they were trying to fix it.
This is yet another situation where my parents, and the deaf community as a whole, are given the short end of the hearing world stick.
With the recent Nelson Mandela funeral uproar, where the interpreter was just making up random motions and later blamed it on his schizophrenia, the deaf community’s challenges have been in the spotlight.
My parents and many of their deaf friends have experienced awkward situations like this all their lives. They’ve been handed menus in Braille, offered wheelchairs at airports and questioned about whether they can drive. It seems people will continue to be misinformed about deaf people and deaf culture when things like this are happening.
Shows like ABC Family’s Switched at Birth have offered a bit of insight to people unaware of what sign language is, but that show doesn’t portray real life at all. Even after the show’s hearing characters decided they should learn sign language to communicate with the show’s deaf characters, they still mostly communicated through lip reading. After a season and a half, I was done.
Deaf people are often misjudged. They are pegged as unable when they are forced to sit in wheelchairs and strolled across the airport when their legs work just fine. They are pegged as always needing assistance because their local captioned theater stops offering captions and they have to go to a major theater and wear the huge, bulky caption glasses that make them look like robots. They are pegged as rude when at the grocery store they can’t hear the person behind them saying excuse me and they don’t move.
But deaf people are not disabled or weird or rude. A deaf person, as my mom puts it, can do anything a hearing person can do — except hear.
Though in the life of a deaf person they are put under many stereotypes and are perceived to be something other than what they really are, deaf people are some of the strongest people I know. They fight through all the odds that society throws at them. They become more than what the world thinks they can become. They are more than a fake interpreter at a televised funeral. They are more than a bad representation on some TV show.
They are unique individuals, and they are just like us.
People should make more of an effort to understand the deaf community