I am married to a deaf guy but we both were oral til later learned ASL. We are involved in the deaf community. We both love it!!
Now I am majoring in ASL/Deaf Studies. I just so love it! It is a fascinating culture!
Really, I was raised oral then I threw tantrums, finally my parents got me a deaf teacher with asl. After that I was happy. I met a deaf oralist married a hearing woman, interest so different from us, my husband know sign language. He refused to learn sign language so he is happy with where he is at now. I am so glad u both love ASL, me too.