I get that most of the hostility against this poster is due to what may be seen as a particular awkwardness with the mechanics of the board and in interactions with individuals, as well as a lack of familiarity with and sensitivity to the cultural and philosophical issues specific to being deaf that many of us and our families are in various stages of addressing, discovering, exploring. But continued bullying, rather than informing or discussing, is counter to the spirit of information-sharing and community development on the forum and is a real deterrent to anyone else who might think to ask about anything from recruitment to language and learning philosophies.
I disagree with several things that DrPhil has stated, and his approach and philosophy are not the same as mine, but I frequently find that to be the case with others on this forum whom I respect, as well as in other forums, where the philosophy is pretty much diametrically opposed to what's commonly held here. This is a diverse community, and the fact that we're not all in lockstep with one another is what builds our community, rather than contracting it.
I don't know DrPhil, and digital forums can amplify or distort personality pretty severely, so I have no idea if he is a good-hearted guy unfamiliar with the deaf community and exploring his deafness by reaching out to this online community or kind of a jerk who has time on his hands and wants to brawl, but I suspect he's far closer to the former. He ASKED about recruitment, given that he too had a sudden hearing loss and yet didn't experience what another poster described. He has not been positioning himself as an expert -- but as someone obviously putting a lot of effort into learning. He has presented his learning experience in response to several challenges from others demanding to know what he knows about these many topics that have come up in this one ugly thread. And despite some painful mocking he's had to take, he has answered many questions in as straightforward a manner as you could wish for, without expressing the nastiness and vitriol apparent in others in this conversation.
This thread, the cochlear transplant thread, this approach to one poster, are toxic. I really don't know why any of us would want to take an "if you have to ask, you shouldn't be here" position. Nobody makes the Journey in a handful of posts online. I'll bet every one of us has been insensitive, stepped into unfamiliar territory, asked what later seemed an obvious question, made an assumption based on a whole lot of data that we later found to be off a bit, or a lot. We all could be helping rather than just taking potshots. I'm relatively new on this journey, I don't have the years of relevant wisdom and experience around this topic he could benefit from -- but I know many of you do, I've relied on and benefited from it enormously and wish you would share with this guy, too.