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LoveLaughSmile said:
Congratulation!!! I read the thread about you being abused by guys as you said all your life. My guess are 1. Some guys who couldn't accept you 100% for who you are 2. Interactions between you and them that caused them to explode at you based on your former ex-boyfriends growing up. I am sorry you had bad expriences with guys and am glad you found someone you can spend the rest of your life in Nashviile, Tenn (I have been there) with your now gay girilfriend., Good Luck!
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Thanks i realy don't wanna think about the abuse anymore. It will be cool to be in Nashville with her getting to live with her finally it will be the best when i can fall asleep to her arms holding me everynight and wake up to her sweet kisses everymorning. lol She's not les Both of us are Bi very much Bi! Thanks alot for your support!
 
Congrats on this, Lil Country Girl... I do hope ya and your gf will have a good life together... once again, congrats!
 
I swear ya'll I have the worst luck I don't know what to say. Well my fiance is not dating the ex that i was talking about earlier in here. She chose him over me. She said I hurt her but I don't know How i hurt her by proposing to her and loving her. Yes I've been really stressed latley i'm possibley going to have back surgery and she wasn't really there for me so yeah i guess i can now give up on guys and girls. I'm really sick of getting hurt. When i proposed she could have said no
 
Lil_country_gal said:
I swear ya'll I have the worst luck I don't know what to say. Well my fiance is not dating the ex that i was talking about earlier in here. She chose him over me. She said I hurt her but I don't know How i hurt her by proposing to her and loving her. Yes I've been really stressed latley i'm possibley going to have back surgery and she wasn't really there for me so yeah i guess i can now give up on guys and girls. I'm really sick of getting hurt. When i proposed she could have said no
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I am sorry to hear that. U say you are 16 so why not take the time for yourself? Dont worry about other people's needs..meet your own needs first while u are still young. Being in a relationship especially marriage is a lot of work. Enjoy being young while u can. I got married at 21 years old and I realized that I really wasnt ready cuz I was still itching for freedom. After the divorce, I refused to get into serious relationships until I got to know myself and enjoy myself and my OWN needs first.
 
shel90 said:
I am sorry to hear that. U say you are 16 so why not take the time for yourself? Dont worry about other people's needs..meet your own needs first while u are still young. Being in a relationship especially marriage is a lot of work. Enjoy being young while u can. I got married at 21 years old and I realized that I really wasnt ready cuz I was still itching for freedom. After the divorce, I refused to get into serious relationships until I got to know myself and enjoy myself and my OWN needs first.
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Yeah I guess i may be 16 in age but to me i seem so much older i never really had a child hood with the family i'm in i had to grow up fast i'm working on moving out right now because of family issues. I know being in any relationship is work and I was willing to put all of the work needed in but I don't know i don't know what happened. I'm really hurt but in a way i'm sitting here thinking I'm gonna hold my head up and prove to them i'm better than them and i can't find someone who will treat me like a i deserve and someone that i can put my love and trust into and not get it hurt
 
Lil_country_gal said:
Thanks i realy don't wanna think about the abuse anymore. It will be cool to be in Nashville with her getting to live with her finally it will be the best when i can fall asleep to her arms holding me everynight and wake up to her sweet kisses everymorning. lol She's not les Both of us are Bi very much Bi! Thanks alot for your support!
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Lil_country_gal said:
Yeah I guess i may be 16 in age but to me i seem so much older i never really had a child hood with the family i'm in i had to grow up fast i'm working on moving out right now because of family issues. I know being in any relationship is work and I was willing to put all of the work needed in but I don't know i don't know what happened. I'm really hurt but in a way i'm sitting here thinking I'm gonna hold my head up and prove to them i'm better than them and i can't find someone who will treat me like a i deserve and someone that i can put my love and trust into and not get it hurt
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My deaf daughter lives in Nashville,TN
 
Lil_country_gal said:
Yeah I guess i may be 16 in age but to me i seem so much older i never really had a child hood with the family i'm in i had to grow up fast i'm working on moving out right now because of family issues. I know being in any relationship is work and I was willing to put all of the work needed in but I don't know i don't know what happened. I'm really hurt but in a way i'm sitting here thinking I'm gonna hold my head up and prove to them i'm better than them and i can't find someone who will treat me like a i deserve and someone that i can put my love and trust into and not get it hurt
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U definitely know what u want and what u deserved! Ok...yea, people can grow up faster than others due to circumstances. What about taking the time for yourself away from relationships and family?
 
shel90 said:
U definitely know what u want and what u deserved! Ok...yea, people can grow up faster than others due to circumstances. What about taking the time for yourself away from relationships and family?
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Yeah I definitely do know what I want and It took him abusing me to realize what I deserve. I plan on moving out this summer to take the summer off and live with my big brother in his apartment. and I'm gonna worry about pulling myself together and making stronger relationships with the real friends i have who i know won't hurt me or leave me. Also trying to make stronger relationships with my family even know we've been going through some rough times latley
 
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