I had an x-ray technician ask me today if being deaf hurt my head or ears. I asked, do you mean, did I hurt myself and then lose my hearing, she said no, I just want to know if you walk around in pain since you can't hear.
My hubby and I were in line to vote today and we were signing. A lady asked someone else what we were doing and my hubby overheard her and replied saying that we are using ASL. The woman was like "Why" and he said that my wife is deaf and guess what she asked my hubby?
"Can deaf people vote?'
WHAT THE FFFFUUUDDDGEEE??? That was a new one for me!
My hubby and I were in line to vote today and we were signing. A lady asked someone else what we were doing and my hubby overheard her and replied saying that we are using ASL. The woman was like "Why" and he said that my wife is deaf and guess what she asked my hubby?
"Can deaf people vote?'
WHAT THE FFFFUUUDDDGEEE??? That was a new one for me!
How can you speak so well when you can't hear?
You can't be that deaf if you speak well...
. . . I've also been asked "Why don't you eat at the picnic table with the rest of us?"
"Because I can't keep up with what everyone is saying".
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. . . I've encountered many older people, who were hearing all their lives, but now are severely HOH or deaf. It comes with age, too. They know no sign language, know nothing about the deaf culture. They become depressed over it and isolated, even suicidal. Compassion is needed.
To be equally pragmatic, rockin'robin, a person doesn't have to know about deaf culture when they lose their hearing, nor is it important to. My dad cried the day he received hearing aids, so he knows what I've gone through. I let people be people, but when my rights, as a deaf/hoh person are infringed on, I'm very quick to react.
If you really want to know how stupid hearies are, watch them around my Hearing Dog, Snickers. You would flip.
i was asked once: do deaf people have sex?
I replied: Does a cow give milk in the woods?
What about people who don't receive the full benefits of hearing aids, nor qualify for implants?
There are lots of elderly who fits in that category.
A friend once told me about the time she was flying and the flight attendant had asked if she wanted anything. My friend said that she was deaf and was about to say for her to please look at her as she lipreads. FA gets look of regret on face and walks to her galley, and comes back with a braille menu!!!
I remember when I was little, a stranger came up to us and asked us for the football scores from my HAs! My stepdad said 'No, she's deaf and Hearing Aids isn't a radio' something like that.
So, take them up on it without giving your life history. No all hearies are idiots, just like not all deaf/hoh's are idiots.