no I have not lost a family member through violence... only cancers and old age. I'm usually forgiving and understanding at great length but losing a family member to violence and a murderer got off on technicality? yea I'm not gonna be quite forgiving and understanding just like I wasn't forgiving and understanding when this ultimate dickhead nearly ran over a family crossing a street couple months ago just because he was impatient and late for the party. I was so angry that I caught up with him and I went to his car. I got right up to his face, yelling at him. his gf was lucky to be there because he was just a moment away from losing consciousness and couple of teeth. she was pleading with me, apologizing for him.
he drove into oncoming lane, going around me and then drove past 4-ways intersection, ignoring the stop sign, and driving around the car stopped in front of him to yield to the family crossing the street in crosswalk. he nearly ran over a family with baby stroller and another pedestrian. under Vision Zero law in NYC... he would have been arrested and lose his license for over a year with hefty fines.