goodonya
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It makes me wonder what they have been doing for those two years?
If two people are to symbolize their intent to join paths in life in a meaningful and lasting way then something like an "ugly" ring should not be hitting the airwaves.
That kind of issue should have been worked over seven ways till Sunday long before the two year mark and the supposed readiness for marriage.
Good and honest communication that takes place without fighting and misunderstanding is something that just has to be in place, before the decision to actually marry.
It is not so easy on the bigger things but what the hell you are going share everything without being able to successfully communicate?
I should probably feel sorry for them both, but I am me and I feel sorry for the guy for being so dumb and nutless for not making good communication a necessity for their relationship.
It is not so easy sometimes and everyone has their own way and it is an ongoing learning experience but if it is not happening and always turns into a mess then it has a lot more meaning than a big fat ring. It means move on and find happiness where it is actually possible.
If two people are to symbolize their intent to join paths in life in a meaningful and lasting way then something like an "ugly" ring should not be hitting the airwaves.
That kind of issue should have been worked over seven ways till Sunday long before the two year mark and the supposed readiness for marriage.
Good and honest communication that takes place without fighting and misunderstanding is something that just has to be in place, before the decision to actually marry.
It is not so easy on the bigger things but what the hell you are going share everything without being able to successfully communicate?
I should probably feel sorry for them both, but I am me and I feel sorry for the guy for being so dumb and nutless for not making good communication a necessity for their relationship.
It is not so easy sometimes and everyone has their own way and it is an ongoing learning experience but if it is not happening and always turns into a mess then it has a lot more meaning than a big fat ring. It means move on and find happiness where it is actually possible.