not going to be here for while

I advise u to move out if ur ex gf tries to control how she can tell u to live ur life then.. try to control her and tell her she can't talk to men then she will realize controlling isn't the best solution to solve problems but I wish u the best of luck when u get ur own place and once again ur life back to normal :roll: at ur ex gf and I agree with other ADers.. she's :crazy:
 
yea i know she is crazy. that why i wanted to get out soon as possible.
 
Awwww....I was wondering why you've been gone all this time. I thought you were getting laid :giggle: Anyway sorry about your present situation...lemme know if I can help. :hug:
 
GeMiNiCaT05 said:
I advise u to move out if ur ex gf tries to control how she can tell u to live ur life then.. try to control her and tell her she can't talk to men then she will realize controlling isn't the best solution to solve problems but I wish u the best of luck when u get ur own place and once again ur life back to normal :roll: at ur ex gf and I agree with other ADers.. she's :crazy:
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Yes, I second that.

Best is move out before late...

WolfRed
Your gf claimed that she loves you but to me, I dont think so but she only want to own you herself. It sound that she´s over proccessive and jealous. It´s something do with her childhood in the past. She should go to see couselling.

I see nothing wrong when you want to befriend with mother of your children. It´s important to have a good contact with mother of your children for your kids´s sake. It´s no good if you ignore her and do what your gf said. What you describe about her sounds that she blackmail you. I see NO love in her for you. Excuse me for saying this.

I would suggest you to go to check with welfare for the deaf to help you to look for right place to live. There´re plenty of girls whom they can trust you full and show their love and attention instead of threat you...
 
^Angel^ said:
I don't quite understand, if you two already broke up, then there's no reason for your ex to be jealous, relationship is always based on trust, if there's no trust, there's no relationship or friendship either..

I talked to guys on line, Roadrunner trust me 100% and knows that I won't go over the line, same goes for him...He talks to alot of girls on line and it never bothered me either...

It's nice to have friends on-line no matter whether it's may be a female or male friend, trust should be the most important part in a relationship whether you are just friends or in love with her.... :thumb: ..

Your ex shouldn't control your life by telling you who you should talk to or who you shouldn't be talking to....just be who you are and makes as many friends as you want...
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Yeah, my hubby knows that I chatted with guys and gals on the online. He trust me full because he knows that I can´t kiss or touch computer... :whistle:

I find it´s sad that your gf do not trust you, RedWolf. Best is get out of her life...
 
Cheri said:
Well, You have to be able to talk to the mother of your child because you both share a child together; And I find that there is nothing wrong with getting along with the mother of your child, Isn't that what all our children would want us to see parent getting along for their sake? Your ex needs to let go and not to be jealous because it's over between the two of you. Maybe you should find another place to live unless you want her to control everything you do in your life. :)
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:ty: posting; C!

I also agree with others here. I wish I had read your posts on this topic a decade ago!
 
Redwolf,

Why r u still living ex gf.. which it's bad news..
I understandable that you have a kid. Important you have to prepare and move out asap until settle living whatever you like.. nobody controlling you. As long you can rights visitian your child. If she refuse or blackmailing.. As long that's fine w/you and 2nd step is... talk out w/legal aid and will make it so action againist ex gf who controlling you all the time.. Will come smooth and visitian rights.

Wishes you have great luck.

Take care.

I've experience in my past 13 yrs ago.. Pretty hell... I'm glad out of my hair. :D
 
Controlling, controlling, controlling!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate that. Beleive me cuz I have been there and done that. Geez, my exh done that to me in the past that is why I divorced him. Now he is sweet talk to his wife and doing nothing to her but I dunno cuz I cant see what is goin on in that house. It none of my business.

Yea poor sweet Redwolf. I agree you need a better life then what you got with your exg. I dont blame you one bit. :hug: I hope thing will be smooth for you in the near future. Good luck and let us know the update.

Right trust is more important then jealous. Being jealous ruined life.
 
mlkshkgrl said:
Awwww....I was wondering why you've been gone all this time. I thought you were getting laid :giggle: Anyway sorry about your present situation...lemme know if I can help. :hug:
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CCsinned is taking care of it for me thanks :)
 
Pomeranian said:
Controlling, controlling, controlling!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate that. Beleive me cuz I have been there and done that. Geez, my exh done that to me in the past that is why I divorced him. Now he is sweet talk to his wife and doing nothing to her but I dunno cuz I cant see what is goin on in that house. It none of my business.

Yea poor sweet Redwolf. I agree you need a better life then what you got with your exg. I dont blame you one bit. :hug: I hope thing will be smooth for you in the near future. Good luck and let us know the update.

Right trust is more important then jealous. Being jealous ruined life.
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exactly it is jealousy. i told her that but she denied that she is jealous.
 
REDWOLF,


well , i ain't dragging my man away from his ex gfs or his ex wife .. cause he is a father to his ex wife's kids ... i let him blah blah with her ... i know that he ain't go falling for her .. he wanna to be with me.. so i understand that .. i let him whatever he wanna to chat with his ex wife, ex gfs something like that!! .. cause i do TRUST my man as 100 percents!!! ...


You have a right to chat with your ex gf deafzombie .. cause she is a mother to your kids.. your ex roommate/gf have no right to bitching or mad at you cause you chatted with ex gf.. oh pls!!! .. that life for everyone who is a father/mother which must chattin ex wife/hubby or ex gf/bf .. to see how their kids doing , etc.. i know that it not easy to have feeling for each other , no matter, your bottom of heart always feeling for EX wife or ex GF.. cause of kids!


:)



TOF
 
RedWolf said:
exactly it is jealousy. i told her that but she denied that she is jealous.
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Don't worry about the jealousy, but she can't deny the fact that she is being unreasonably controlling. That is tangible behavior. You owe nothing to her except your gratitude for letting you stay at her house rent-free, but that doesn't mean she has to control your personal life. Perhaps you should consider paying her back with money or do some chores around the house.
 
Liza said:
Don't worry about the jealousy, but she can't deny the fact that she is being unreasonably controlling. That is tangible behavior. You owe nothing to her except your gratitude for letting you stay at her house rent-free, but that doesn't mean she has to control your personal life. Perhaps you should consider paying her back with money or do some chores around the house.
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no i wasnt staying at her house rent-free. I am still paying the rent and paying the bills. Right now I'm at the library, without TV or computer. I'm bored as hell here.
 
TongueOnFire said:
REDWOLF,


well , i ain't dragging my man away from his ex gfs or his ex wife .. cause he is a father to his ex wife's kids ... i let him blah blah with her ... i know that he ain't go falling for her .. he wanna to be with me.. so i understand that .. i let him whatever he wanna to chat with his ex wife, ex gfs something like that!! .. cause i do TRUST my man as 100 percents!!! ...


You have a right to chat with your ex gf deafzombie .. cause she is a mother to your kids.. your ex roommate/gf have no right to bitching or mad at you cause you chatted with ex gf.. oh pls!!! .. that life for everyone who is a father/mother which must chattin ex wife/hubby or ex gf/bf .. to see how their kids doing , etc.. i know that it not easy to have feeling for each other , no matter, your bottom of heart always feeling for EX wife or ex GF.. cause of kids!


:)



TOF
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yea i know i know.....i told my soon-to-be ex-roommate/ex-gf. that she is jealous and very controlling. she still denying it. I told her that my ex-gf was the mother of my kids. I just told deafzombiegirl about this, she got really pissed off at my roommate. she wanna kill her ass really bad for stopping us talking to each other. She said I would better off moving out of her house soon as possible.
 
soon getting off the computer....i only have 34 minutes left at the computer library. then head off home with no computer and no TV. fucking bored there.
 
so just tell her that she's a self centered zealous obsessed nazi-loving miserable careless stupid freaky bitch!


....after you actually leave her house, that is. :o
 
Steel said:
so just tell her that she's a self centered zealous obsessed nazi-loving miserable careless stupid freaky bitch!


....after you actually leave her house, that is. :o
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Believe Me. When I pick up Redwolf to move him. After I'm done speaking my mind. This BITCH will be a whole new person...
the Bitch ---> :crazy: :rl: <---Me
 
Redwolf

I am curious about the rent and bills you are paying her... is it in contract papers? (like an agreement on pay rent and bills.)
 
Shiva said:
Redwolf

I am curious about the rent and bills you are paying her... is it in contract papers? (like an agreement on pay rent and bills.)
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I am right now at Kinko's which i pay for 12 dollars an hour to use the computer. anyway to answer the question. I only pay the rent no bills now she just told me just now all of us had to pay the bills. 1/3 for all three of us. there is another roommate that lives with us also. she also complained about it too. everything changed since her new roommate moved in. by the way....there was no contract papers on agreement at all.
 
Steel said:
so just tell her that she's a self centered zealous obsessed nazi-loving miserable careless stupid freaky bitch!


....after you actually leave her house, that is. :o
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that what im gonna do when i leave with ccsinned
 
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