I was being since. I have NEVER EVER had a terp for a doctors apointment. Their was a recent meeting about me that had me in attendance and I didn't have a terp for that either. Dad was expected to do it but he never interprets word for word so I missed a lot of it. Very disapointing but I hope I get a terp eventually.
The reason I mention doing without a terp is not because I don't think Lucia needs one. It's because It sounds like she really needs to see a doctor more.
Yes, ideally terps are great but we don't live in an ideal world. It seems to me a bit silly not to see the doctor until the ideal terp is found. She should go as soon as possible with or without one.
It has NOTHING to do with a CI. I would give her exactly the same advice if she didn't have one.
dreama, I am speaking directly to you now as a disability rights advocate.
Lucia, please accept my apologies for going offtopic in your thread.
This does apply to your topic as well so once again, I am sorry for going OT.
dreama, back to you.
As an advocate, I encourage everyone especially the DB community to rally for their own basic human rights to communication AND accessibility.
When I read your post, dreama, I recoiled in shock when you allowed your own father to interpret for you. No way should you ever allow your own parents to interpret, intervene or tactile for you in any appointment, meetings or anything else.
You are supposed to have a neutral person that has no vested interest in your well-being - mental, physical, emotional and psychological. This neutral person acts as a conduct between you and the hearing world, both sound and visual.
This neutral person is supposed to be giving you all kinds of information and answer your questions, no matter how stupid you think it is. If you ask what colour the sky is, the neutral person {SSPs, intervenor, interpreter} will reply "Blue, sometimes azure and has clouds the shape of ________" The neutral person will not reply "Red" or "Never mind!"
The fact that your father does not give you full information leaves you out of the loop and this bothers me because you are not in full control of yourself. Physically, emotionally, mentally and psychologically.
I urge you to take control of the communication issues & feel free to PM me.
Do take care dreama.
Tactile smile to one DB sister from another.
Patty [Mrs Bucket]