Gee. You are not alone. I know how hard it is. My grandmother had one, too. I think that you might want to ask your mother to let your grandaunt to live with your family at your house so that she would feel more comfortable.
It would be nice but I don't want to live so far away from my family. I already lived with my roomates recurrently. But, hopefully, someday I would see her again.
Many nursing homes are the worst because some medicines (i.e. Hal) cause their elder patients to wipe out their mind to stop complaining everyday. The nurses have no patience to deal with their complaints. That's the reality. I found out about it after she took the pill. I can't believe it. I personally was so mad about it.
Yeah, true... As a former dishwasher, I used to work at rehab clinic for nearly three years and I witnessed it too. I was pretty disappointed that some staffs didnt take care of my mom in a proper way after her car accident on March 29, 2007. At the least, I know what will be next if it happens to me. =/
We decided and took care of my grandmother at my house for two years. It was a sad at the end. But, I am pretty sure that
she wanted to say thank us to have her in our house.