My experience is that I lost my hearing as a baby, I picked up music on my own, and I asked my stepmother to help me get into the school band in the 5th grade, and I have been listening to music however I want. In high school, I didn't care for the pop music scene like Madonna, Michael Jackson, metal and rock. I was really into jazz-rock fusion stuff like Yellow jackets, Stanley Clarke, etc. In college, I picked up electronic/80's dance music like OMD, Pet Shop Boys, Information Society, Dead or Alive, etc. Afterwards, I added on Madonna, Paula Abdul, Yothu Yindi, Yaz, etc. in the very late 90's, I added on Internet bands like Satcom 101, Drastic, Johannes Roussel, Hermit Bastard, Canfil, etc. Finally, in the early part of this decade, I watched School of Rock, and I finally understood what rock is about. I was turned on it full. I like stuff like AC/DC, some Aerosmith, a lot of modern rock like Godsmack, 7 Mary 3, 3 Doors Down, The Hives, Halo Friendlies, etc. Nowadays, I'm reaching out to see who does rock and other genres in other countries, like Motherjane from India, Avial from India, a song called Vaa Ji from the movie Sivaji (India). There is Blk Jks (sp?) from Africa.
I remember being told in high school that what I was listening to was crap because it wasn't rock. I didn't care. I'm one of those people who will listen to what gets me going. I'm very picky what I listen to. I don't run with the herd. Xero, I don't know why those people only listen to one thing over and over, except one thing - they might have an emotional attachment of some sort to the song, and that particular song hits certain areas of the brain that makes them feel good. That's what it does for me.
But yeah, I do talk about things you might have never considered. What is the possibility that these people are quiet because they feel they are so far out of mainstream society that they won't be understood, if at all. Like no one else shares their experiences. I fall solidly in that category. It wasn't until a few years ago that I realized that my problem with the deaf community at large is that I don't fit in. I'm like a hearing person, but I'm so deaf I shouldn't even be talking. I don't feel the need to take on a Deaf identity. There's so much going on in the world at large I don't want to miss out on, and this is why I don't run with the herd. I mean, I did militia duty briefly, am interested in old, small SUVs, play music, work in retail, do underground financial research on the side, etc.
Stephanie