Wow again I come back to this and it's really gone off again.
I can only speak to being a current Deaf educator in the US with a 7 year old daughter who is has been profoundly Deaf since birth. Honestly on the education side what
@zeefour is posting is in line with everything being taught and promoted in all the Deaf Ed programs I've been in in the last 10 years and conferences I've attended as a SPED/TOD that focus on TC and how to integrate children into the classroom with the LEAST restrictive environment and the least amount of tech/equipment/etc needed to be as successful as possible. It's not just for Deaf Ed but children with a host of different disabilities. There's no need to load them up with expensive, restrictive equipment to make them as "normal" as possible ( I hate that word normal by the way), when there's a method that allows them to use the skills and abilities they already have to succeed.
In regards to being a hearing parent of a Deaf child, my daughter was raised with ASL as her first language and since pre-K has been learning English as her second language. She's at her grade level for reading and writing in English. I know there's some controversy about my daughter being mainstreamed in a hearing school. There's a handful of other DHH in her school, but there aren't any in her age group and as of right now she's the only DHH child in our small district who uses ASL. I would love if she could attend RMDS, the bilingual charter school in the Denver area. Right now we've had some really traumatic events in our family so keeping my girls with me at home is really what's beset (her sister is 5 years old and hearing but is bilingual in ASL as well). When my daughter is older I'll gladly let her choose where she'd like to be for school whether it's RMDS, CSDB or even if she wants to enroll in Kendal or MSSD. I'm adamant about giving her all the skills not only what I believe as an educator is the best option for her academically and intellectually (bilingual education) but what will allow her to succeed in life no matter what path she chooses and be proud of being a Deaf girl/woman.