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Liebling:-))) said:mld4ds, watch out what you are saying here. We will begin to think you are 2nd Ravensteve.
Members, INGORE him.........
Me? naw....
Liebling:-))) said:mld4ds, watch out what you are saying here. We will begin to think you are 2nd Ravensteve.
Members, INGORE him.........
C.C.Sinned said:I can think of 2 women that would make awesome moderators.
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VamPyroX said:If you want to recommend another female moderator, feel free to PM us. It doesn't mean that she will get the job. But, it doesn't hurt to try.
I agree with you 100% that there should be a "job description" and "code of ethics" for moderators to adhere to. It is difficult for friends to be objective, but I think that is one of the problems we have been experiencing here in AD with mods lately anyway. I personally am not the "kissing up" type, just not my style. And, a true friend would NEVER "give you hell if you dont support their sides", because a true friend would respect your difference in opinion in the first place.Many people do not realise this, and there will be some members coming to you trying to kiss up to you to be on their sides, and they will give you hell if you dont support their sides. Moderators and friends are two separate roles, and people forget that, especially one of the female members here being nominated for the position.
Eve said:And, a true friend would NEVER "give you hell if you dont support their sides", because a true friend would respect your difference in opinion in the first place.
kuifje75 said:My feelings about the whole moderator issue:
There should be a criteria that a moderator should undergo through and a sort of code of ethnics thing that a moderator would have to stick with.
As far as I remember, I do not know of any "job description" outlining the duties of a moderator posted anywhere on this forum. There is also no such list of criteria that a moderator has to satisify before being taken on. There is also no such code of ethics that moderators are to be expected to abide with. I think what we should do first is to do these before hiring any more new moderators. Moderator is not an easy duty to assume, and one must remain to be as objective to the utmost without taking sides. Many people do not realise this, and there will be some members coming to you trying to kiss up to you to be on their sides, and they will give you hell if you dont support their sides. Moderators and friends are two separate roles, and people forget that, especially one of the female members here being nominated for the position.
As a moderator for Alldeaf in the past, I had to endure homophobic discussions without prejudice to the homophobic members and to tell the other members off for insulting these homophobic members. It was very insightful for me, and I attempted to keep the discussion going without judgments and insults. Unfortunately, members failed to understand the validity of this member's thread and the insultings got out of hand and the thread had to be closed.
That is a fine example of remaining objective and not letting your own personal feelings get involved. I think it is the greatest task to overcome when one becomes a moderator. I think I have more or less alienated myself from everyone when I did that, because members failed to see the separation of the roles of a friend and of a moderator. It's really pathetic, I think.
DreamDeaf said:I'd rather LET Alex choose the moderators for HIS OWN forum, without any pressure from ANY AD member.
He's the one who's paying for the forum, he's the one who's the boss, he's the one who has to get along with the moderators...so it's HIS choice, and we do not have the right to pressure him.
Eve said:LOL it is each individual member's decision whether or not they want to make any suggestions and who they would recommend if they do. Alex is a smart enough man to make his own decision on the matter and if you don't have enough confidence in that, then you don't have enough respect for him.