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mayalice said:
hi everyone i met this guy online seven months ago.
We had some really good charts and he would call everyday .He finally come to see me and we had sex .It was the first time I'd met someone online and had sex with .After ten days he went back to his country and promised to contact me but he has not said anything.Am feeling really bad about it and am starting to think that this is what he probably does because he was online on the same dating site today.What should i do should i send him a mail?Any advice ?
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Heres my advice....

Get smarter.

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lol if she is desperate to get laid then do it with a friend not a stranger.. but on other hand.. I'm one of them.. I'm that depserate to do it often but god it's not going anywhere blah.. and I got pissed that he "stood me up" so I'm not gonna go back to facebook if he wants me back on facebook he have play harder to get me back on facebook ;) on other hand.. I'm back to posting on alldeaf.com til then :D
 
crazyerica32 said:
lol if she is desperate to get laid then do it with a friend not a stranger.. but on other hand.. I'm one of them.. I'm that depserate to do it often but god it's not going anywhere blah.. and I got pissed that he "stood me up" so I'm not gonna go back to facebook if he wants me back on facebook he have play harder to get me back on facebook ;) on other hand.. I'm back to posting on alldeaf.com til then :D
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lol nice.
 
Yeahhh I've definitely met someone and gotten naked within a short span of time. The key is to use protection and to have someone know where you are.

That said, if you put out quickly you should know that a fair amount of people will just think they got what they came for (no pun intended) and are outta there. Although I'm surprised he talked to you for 7 months and is ignoring you now--most people would've given up without sex before that, and would only stick around if they actually liked the person.
 
posts from hell said:
Tell that to the hookers in the Red Light District....... Is all I am going to say.
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they are far far more fussy and far more aware of STDs than more people, it was on a TV documentary that it showed they tend to used the best condoms, well at least they NEVER used 'past due dates' and they have regular check ups, however porn starts might be at more risk esp those who dont use protection...

also despite the awareness media press abroad, teens and young people , even those cheating in extra maritial affairs are greatest at risk, research have proven it
 
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crazyerica32 said:
lol if she is desperate to get laid then do it with a friend not a stranger.. but on other hand.. I'm one of them.. I'm that depserate to do it often but god it's not going anywhere blah.. and I got pissed that he "stood me up" so I'm not gonna go back to facebook if he wants me back on facebook he have play harder to get me back on facebook ;) on other hand.. I'm back to posting on alldeaf.com til then :D
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I wanted to do it too because .
1. it had been an year since the last time i got laid .
2.To relive the cramps
he finally sent me a mail today but am not interested anymore.Not after the lousy sex and what he did after that .
Thanks everyone for your opinions
 
I dnt think you need to contact him any more .... just move on... and try to take it slow and get to know him a little b4...sex... and dnt worry bout these negative comments I dnt think u are a whore just move on and take it slow next time.... u will b fine........
 
rebeccalj said:
What kind of ho has sex with someone they don't even know in person? Good gawd, I hope you at least use condoms!!
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Wow. Judgmental.

It's how I met one of my exes-- online and that's exactly what happened in real life. I wasn't even the one who suggested it.

It worked out okay for a few months afterward. She's the last person I would call a slut. Upset about her ex-boyfriend slash roommate at the time, yes, but not a slut.
 
When a man talks dirty to a woman, its sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 per minute.
 
From my standpoint...girl you were stupid. I don't want to be rude but putting out like that is just...slutty.
I'm 29 and have only been with one person my husband so how I feel about this isn't..pretty but my advice to you is not to do thsi again. I don't know how old you are but you must be either really young or just plain stupid to do this. You were a booty call to this person...a number.
it's time to move on.

If you don't want to feel so horrible about it then don't give it out for free. As my mother used to tell me, if you lie with dogs you wake up with fleas and my dear looks like you did.

sorry but it's the truth.
 
Come on, guys. Can we give the girl a break? Yes, it was stupid but do we really need to resort to petty insults? You don't know her background. Maybe the OP is really lonely and has a hard time finding romance and just needs her basic, primal urges sated.

And let's be brutally honest here: if this were a man who had a one-night stand with a woman and the woman left him, we would be sympathetic.. There would be NO name-calling. Double standards, anyone?! How many of us can say we didn't do something equally or more idiotic? I bet more than half of us made out with a stranger we met at a bar... Probably even went further than that.

He who is without sin can cast the first stone. My point? Back off mayalice, you bunch of judgmental, hypocritical asses.
 
Steinhauer said:
When a man talks dirty to a woman, its sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 per minute.
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speaking from experience? :hmm:
 
rebeccalj said:
You think the poster is legitimate? If they are do you think it is moral behaviour to jump into sex with someone you've never met? Hookers do this everyday which was why I use word 'ho.'
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Two consenting adults agreeing to have sex is not immoral and certainly does not make the woman a "ho".
 
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