Messages I Never Got

I sorta know how you feel.

I've gone through communication problems with my ex. If anyone asked me to leave a message for her, I always did. If anyone asked her to leave a message for me, she rarely did. If someone was concerned about something I did, they would tell her... but she wouldn't tell me. It was basically anything from herself and no one else.

After we broke up, I started hearing a lot of things from others. "Why didn't you do this?" "Huh? What you talking about? I don't know anything about it." "I told her since she was your girlfriend." "Oh, she never told me anything about it."

I almost lost a few friends because of this. :roll:
 
VamPyroX said:
I sorta know how you feel.

I've gone through communication problems with my ex. If anyone asked me to leave a message for her, I always did. If anyone asked her to leave a message for me, she rarely did. If someone was concerned about something I did, they would tell her... but she wouldn't tell me. It was basically anything from herself and no one else.

After we broke up, I started hearing a lot of things from others. "Why didn't you do this?" "Huh? What you talking about? I don't know anything about it." "I told her since she was your girlfriend." "Oh, she never told me anything about it."

I almost lost a few friends because of this. :roll:
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Aww I am so sorry to hear this.
 
Whoa! that is a violation of trust, of not passing on phone messages to you. What a rotten, low-down jerk!

As Vampy said ... did you get back to those waiting for explanations?
 
The just move forward, what ever happened from you ex, those messages on the answering machine, it's a shame that you didn't get these messages but now that you truly know what kind of a person that your ex is now because of this. That's too bad.. He shouldn't have done that.
 
deafbajagal,I sorry about you not getting your messages that is so wrong.My husband does the same thing to me he knows I can't hear on the phone even with hearing aids it's very hard and I ask him why don't you tell me and he always say your hearing lost is not my problem.
 
Pepsi said:
deafbajagal,I sorry about you not getting your messages that is so wrong.My husband does the same thing to me he knows I can't hear on the phone even with hearing aids it's very hard and I ask him why don't you tell me and he always say your hearing lost is not my problem.
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That's a horrible thing for your husband to say. He made it his "problem" when he married you. As your husband, he should love you enough to help you whenever he can cause of your hearing loss. That is a huge cop-out!
 
Pepsi said:
deafbajagal,I sorry about you not getting your messages that is so wrong.My husband does the same thing to me he knows I can't hear on the phone even with hearing aids it's very hard and I ask him why don't you tell me and he always say your hearing lost is not my problem.
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I know what you mean. When we were married, he was constantly telling me "that's not important" or "never mind" if I asked him what someone said. It pissed me off to no end. Your husband is so rude when he does that! Give him a good slap on the head for me!
 
jiro123 said:
deafbajagal - now that your husband is your ex (sorry to hear about that)... and obviously you don't use answering machine anymore - what do you use to receive voice mail? answering machine or cell phone?

BTW - you know you can call to your own answering machine via relay service so you do not have to rely on somebody else.
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The answer machine was really for my husband...and it was when I had a TTY (a while ago, lol) - so people would call my home phone number and got the machine if neither of us answered. I don't use voice mail (actually had it removed from my Sidekick so no one could use it). I do use Sign Mail from Sorenson and those messages go straight to my Sidekick. ;)
 
VamPyroX said:
I sorta know how you feel.

I've gone through communication problems with my ex. If anyone asked me to leave a message for her, I always did. If anyone asked her to leave a message for me, she rarely did. If someone was concerned about something I did, they would tell her... but she wouldn't tell me. It was basically anything from herself and no one else.

After we broke up, I started hearing a lot of things from others. "Why didn't you do this?" "Huh? What you talking about? I don't know anything about it." "I told her since she was your girlfriend." "Oh, she never told me anything about it."

I almost lost a few friends because of this. :roll:
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I'm sorry, Vamp. Your ex and my ex need to get together...they deserve each other!
 
I'm sorry that it had to happen to you, deafbajagal.

Like everyone said, a communication is a major key and that goes with the trust.

Some people just don't really know how to keep tab on this or that. It's kind of morbid when one doesn't relay the message to another. Now that is not a two way street thing.
 
deafbajagal said:
I know what you mean. When we were married, he was constantly telling me "that's not important" or "never mind" if I asked him what someone said. It pissed me off to no end. Your husband is so rude when he does that! Give him a good slap on the head for me!
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Thanks,I am doing even better than that.We are getting a divorce :D
 
Secretblend said:
That's a horrible thing for your husband to say. He made it his "problem" when he married you. As your husband, he should love you enough to help you whenever he can cause of your hearing loss. That is a huge cop-out!
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Thanks,Secretblend it's over with him and me.
 
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