Messages I Never Got

deafbajagal

deafbajagal

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Last night a friend came over and plugged up my old answering machine (and it is OLD. lol) to see if it was working. There were messages on there that I never got. She interpreted the messages for me. People left messages for my hearing husband (now ex) to tell me. I know that he always pressed the message button as soon as he got home from work. Then he always told me, "Those were for me." or "Nothing important."

"Tell (my name) that we appreciated her casserole! It was wonderful!"

"Tell (my name) that this is her Momma. She needs to call me when she gets home. Tell her I love her and hope she feels better!"

"Hi, this is (name)! I'm in town for the day! I would love to see you! Can we grab a coffee? My phone number is ..." (This was my best friend whom I hadn't seen in years, and my husband KNEW I would have wanted to see her.)

"HEY, (my name)! Thank you for standing up for me in the meeting! I totally appreciated your support! Gimme a call when you get home."

"I need help. I really need you to come help me. Jeff (my ex), please, please tell her to call me at (phone number)." (crying voice)

"(my name), give me a call when you can. This is (friend's name) at (phone number)."

"This is your father. Call me when you get home, (my name). Your mother needs you. Thank you, hun."

"I just wanted to call you - and let you know you're the best friend I've ever had. Thank you for being in my life. I'm so damn lucky to have you as a friend to stand by me during this shitty time of my life."

"Hi! This is ----. I just bought a new TTY! So you can call me directly. "

And from my father...he hardly ever told me he loved me. I can count the times on one hand.

"(My name). This is Dad. Thank you for the card. I love you, hun."


Messages I never got.
 
That is horrible! He is a jerk for not relaying those messages to you and for saying "not important" Those were and are very important! Glad you did find out the truth instead of them being erased and never knowing it!
 
Oh my God :( I would be livid if it was me - how can he NOT tell you? These were heartfelt messages - messages of love, friendship, appreciation and pleas for help.

I would love to smack him for you! :slap:

:hug:
 
I am soo sorry you did not get your msg's. Thank God for Karma. Somehow this will all balance out and he will fucked twice.
 
That's shock. That's something I would never know if being with sponsor and wouldn't make equal communicate. Eek.
 
Gemma said:
Oh my God :( I would be livid if it was me - how can he NOT tell you? These were heartfelt messages - messages of love, friendship, appreciation and pleas for help.

I would love to smack him for you! :slap:

:hug:
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Your hand is so soft and smooth. That wouldn't work. Put the spike glove and punch him! :D
 
Oh my goodness. I am glad you aren't with that jerk. He doesn't deserve you at all! Don't Worry karma will get him back one day. :)
 
deafbajagal - now that your husband is your ex (sorry to hear about that)... and obviously you don't use answering machine anymore - what do you use to receive voice mail? answering machine or cell phone?

BTW - you know you can call to your own answering machine via relay service so you do not have to rely on somebody else.
 
:jaw: Your ex-husband is very dishonesty ! Unbelievable ! I am glad you are not with him anymore. You are too good for him. :hug:
 
OMG what a !@#$%^& he is scoffs good thing you are not with him
AND now you know what he is like smh
hugs
 
I'm shocked that your ex hubby hasn't told you those messages! That was really selfish of himself! I'm glad you got those messages and it didn't get erased, whew! It's better late than never!
 
Gee... that sucks!

I can't believe he would do that to you.

Good thing he's now your "ex".

Better late than never.

Did you ever get back to those people to explain your long waited response?
 
Ouch, that's terrible, DeafBaja. :( How about playing the messages to your parents so they would know how he was and that you had never gotten any of their message?
 
I am glad he's your ex- now , what a jerk to hide the messages from you. I am sure, those people will understand the situation for replying a long wait. I am sorry, he did this to you that's horrible.
 
Sorry to hear that, DBG. I guess that meant you had go expend a lot of energy to mend fences when you found out about this....
 
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