well I'm a little late but showing up the Meniere's disease party here.
*waves dizzy flag*
I'm probably the "veteran" here as I'm a 30-year patient. I've had lots of different treatments, many of which helped for the stage I was at. I just recently had the shunt surgery on my second side and I'm having a positive result.
I've been lucky enough for the last 10 years to be seeing a very cutting edge doctor here in the Portland Oregon area, Harold Kim. We have tried lots of different treatments but I have proven to be one of his harder-core cases. If I can share any of my experiences and be helpful to this little gathering I'd be happy to do so. But my story hasn't been a real good one so I won't give the details until you ask.
I was diagnosed in my 20s and had very sporatic but violent vertigo/tinnitus problems at first, which later developed into deafness on the left side. I was in remission for quite a while and then after they implanted a BAHA device on my deaf side to restore my two-sided hearing, two years later my disease went bilateral. I've been suffering a slow degeneration of the hearing on the left side now and have very little usable hearing left at this point and very poor balance.
I've also developed other vertigo problems (positional vertigo and migraine associated vertigo and clinical depression), but the recent shunt surgery has really helped with this.
I am on disability now as I can't drive and I can't use a phone, although I've just ordered a special phone.
I also just ordered a special hearing aide and hope that will improve my quality of life.
With Menieres, that is what it is all about, keeping the quality of your life up. It can really SUCK.
And those doctors suggesting you learn ASL, they are RIGHT. I decided I would "fight" losing my hearing and did not encourage anyone to learn ASL and did not learn it myself while I could hear and more easily attend classes. I do wish I had a different attitude about it long ago. I had resolved to never go deaf and that was the wrong thing to resolve. I should have resolved to live my life gracefully come what may.
I do have family members with this disease and they never had even a tenth of the issues I have had, so it does seem that even within the same family it can hit you differently.
May all of you have a light case and have long remissions!