There's so many ways to turn a woman on.
First, you can have a pulse (thanks a certain someone,
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I do the following on your list: 1, 2, 3, 6, 7, and 9. I will not turn her on by kissing another man myself. (see 4th choice.)
There are more things - you can say very dirty things to her too.
Unexpected romance - I'm not going to list out what I can do, It will throw my dignity out of the window. (Yes, the perverted, disgusting, crude man I am.)
Being confident, do what you want, etc. Be yourself. Don't beat the lady up, treat her like a queen. She'll be all over you for life.