I haven't been in a relationship for about 10 years now. I have not been looking either. I do have hopes that somebody may come along some day. They will have to have much patience though.
I do have two wonderful daughters. 27 and 20. the youngest I raised from 18 months old until I married her stepmother. I found out about some truly horrible things that she had done to my daughter, that was it, over... done.
My daughter has been through some counseling and is doing pretty well. She tells me not to beat myself up over it all, but, I should have seen what had been going on and so I feel that if I had payed closer attention maybe those things would have never happened.