Man ignores child's cries for help, gets arrested

diehardbiker said:
Having children of one's own is AWESOME!!! I can't explain how awesome it is. BUT your right, it is not for everybody, so keep your snake behind cage if you can't handle kids. Yes, Kids CAN drive parents crazy sometimes.
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Kinda what I'm doing right now. That is, unless something happens that I didn't plan for. If that happens, so be it.
 
Once that happens, you will not be who you are as of right now. You will see it, its completely different world.

I myself thought I won't be able to handle kids at all, and at same time I do want to have kids. One DAMN woman that proves me that I was dead wrong about raising kids and she really really hit my face harder than I could ever image. Im not sure how to make a damn long story short, and that was in Oregon, that woman who was orally deaf, learn sign language when we met online as friend. Her hubby divorced left her with two kids. She said she only want little help with discipline her kids when I was with her. I thought of the discipline method, and I didn't realize it backfired and I couldn't understand her and tried to ask her to tell me what she is talking about. I decided its not worth trying to be friend with her anymore and left and met my wife shortly afterwards and ended up having two kids of my own. That is when I changed who I was, who I am right now. I wish I could thank her and respect her that she was damn right after all. I have not heard or speak with her ever since before my first boy was born.

Having your own kids can change you, I hope you can be a great parent.

ChicagoBlue2 said:
Kinda what I'm doing right now. That is, unless something happens that I didn't plan for. If that happens, so be it.
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diehardbiker said:
Once that happens, you will not be who you are as of right now. You will see it, its completely different world.

I myself thought I won't be able to handle kids at all, and at same time I do want to have kids. One DAMN woman that proves me that I was dead wrong about raising kids and she really really hit my face harder than I could ever image. Im not sure how to make a damn long story short, and that was in Oregon, that woman who was orally deaf, learn sign language when we met online as friend. Her hubby divorced left her with two kids. She said she only want little help with discipline her kids when I was with her. I thought of the discipline method, and I didn't realize it backfired and I couldn't understand her and tried to ask her to tell me what she is talking about. I decided its not worth trying to be friend with her anymore and left and met my wife shortly afterwards and ended up having two kids of my own. That is when I changed who I was, who I am right now. I wish I could thank her and respect her that she was damn right after all. I have not heard or speak with her ever since before my first boy was born.

Having your own kids can change you, I hope you can be a great parent.
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Yeah, so do I, but let's not forget that I've not found a woman yet, and I'm in no hurry to. I have plenty keeping me happy and focused.
 
diehardbiker said:
Nope, read again, it will be misdemeanor not felony.

Sucks, and I think his child custody status should be revoked.
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child custody status? but it's not his son... it's his stepson. I don't think he cares for child custody of this boy. looks like he was just babysitting him while his wife was working.
 
ChicagoBlue2 said:
That's for endangerment. If he actually did harm the child, that's assault, and it will be a felony. There could also be other charges, too, such as child cruelty.
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assault? no that's not a correct charge.

it's child abuse.
 
diehardbiker said:
In his defense, he would have illness called addiction and needs help, that is how attorney would fix up for any crooks. Its common, but its sad really.

Did you realize that charges being dropped is common in criminal court. Usually due to overcrowding prison issues that they are trying too solve, less charges, the less time in prison. If every damn criminal charges were pressed all the way, our prison will be over filled number times than what it is right now.

Our justice is broken.

Im not against your opinion, I'm merely state the fact that the felony charges is not exist at this case. Maybe? It depends, really.
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not really. it's because of lack of evidences.

and our legal system is kind of broken because the justice is basically determined by how much you can afford excellent lawyer(s).
 
diehardbiker said:
Problem is, the injury is not life threatening type, (That is in the eyes of legal system) but has urgent care that is needed. Won't die from it if wait 24 hours, but it will be damn painful. I broke my leg and it took me at least a day to go to hospital, it was merely few miles away!

If the injury were life threatening like non stopping bleeding, then it will be in whole different ballpark.
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no. it's because there is a lack of evidence for child abuse but they have enough for misdemeanor child endangerment charge.
 
diehardbiker said:
In his defense, he would have illness called addiction and needs help, that is how attorney would fix up for any crooks. Its common, but its sad really.

Did you realize that charges being dropped is common in criminal court. Usually due to overcrowding prison issues that they are trying too solve, less charges, the less time in prison. If every damn criminal charges were pressed all the way, our prison will be over filled number times than what it is right now.

Our justice is broken.

Im not against your opinion, I'm merely state the fact that the felony charges is not exist at this case. Maybe? It depends, really.
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While I agree that our justice system has huge problems. I would say our society as a whole is broken which is why the justice system has problems.
 
This is sad as more and more people are becoming selfish and wanting to please themselves more than others.
 
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