I guess I have that view because my brother went to a deaf school that was considered sucky and many of his peers grew up with that negative view of themselves but yet, he is getting his Master's. He never had to grow up experiencing the crappy life I did being constantly frustrated and with a negative view of himself as a "broken" hearing person. I absulotely would refuse to do that to a deaf child of mine if I had one.
You said many of his peers grew up with that negative view of themselves. Are you talking about his peers from the same school? Do you think that they would still have this negative view if the school was not as "sucky"?
You said that you grew up with a negative view as yourself as a "broken" hearing person. It's odd because from the high school students at that specific deaf school, it seems like they don't have faith in themselves anyway. It was depressing to hear "Can deaf people work there?" over and over. (It was Career Day when I visited.)
It seems like you are implying that it doesn't matter what the environment of the school is, as long they have full communication.
Honestly, I think deaf schools are stuck in a horrible cycle. Parents see deaf school options and decide not to put their kids with other kids who are behind and go for other types of education. When the ones who don't do well in the "other types", they fall behind and switch to the deaf school, making up a good percentage of the student population.
You know what would be a good statistic to look at? The demographics of deaf children with deaf parents. Im assuming the majority of deaf parents send their deaf children to deaf schools. In theory, every state deaf school should have 10% with deaf parents. If not, that means deaf parents actually look at the schools and MOVE to another state for a better deaf school.
Edit: I just realized that population of the state does affect that 10% value, but you get the point.