Love is not important.

[Liebling:-)))]

Use her finger to save $$$ Dildo can be annoying ! Battery runs out very fast. It is the best to using her finger.

Not bad suggestion!!!!!!!!! Batteries harm to evironment!!!

 

[TTT]

Nah...

Fingers get tired. And Dildo is too big for my small vagina.
Cause I only had sex 4 times. I can't even wear tampon.

But I don't think Men will ever love me. Because I am so weird.
I am very selfish sharing my love... because
Love isn't sex...
Sex is forgetable... I forgot what sex is now....
But Love is unforgetable and I want to be careful
who I give my heart too... A broken heart is a permanent damage.
I am saving all my LOVE for the right man.
But I am not going to save myself and be a virgin til the right man
comes along, NO WAY!!! I probably be 45 years old by the time
I find the right guy.

If I go out looking for love, and no sex, then I would
be a 33 years old and still a virgin.

There is nothing wrong with asking a man to fix me.
Put me out of my misery.

I will evenually asked a man for sex... and I know
men will do it, because men love sex. And it is easy
to ask... But I don't ask stranger. I only ask a male friend.

I make sure that I know his name, address, and everything else.
I still know where the 3 men I fucked live...
Because they told me where their parents live and so forth.
I can traced them down...
I mean, just in case, if I ever get pregnant or if I get AIDS or whatever...
I would try to contact them to let them know.

But I don't fuck stranger, I don't fuck a guy if I don't know anything
about him.

That is why I rather have sex once every 5 years or so.....
with a man.
So I won't lose count.
I am not like some women who has sex an hundred times...
and them had sex with many many many men.

NOT ME!!!!

:roll:

 

[Angel]

I will evenually asked a man for sex... and I know
men will do it, because men love sex. And it is easy
to ask..

Aren't you worry about getting aids or any other type of diseases?

 

[TTT]

Usher Lyrics

"That's What It's Made For"

Ooh, yeah baby yeaah
Uhhuhhuhhuhhmmm
Yeaah babe
Ooh, ooh
Oh, yeah
Listen up I got a story to tell
Check it out now
And I know you can identify with this one
Yeah yeah yeah, oh
Check it out

Figured I'd hit it and quit it just one night
Got so good to me doubled back twice, I
Musta been outta my mind
Knowin' I don't wanna
I'm about to nut up
Guess it's too late to turn back now
Can't appologize cuz that ain't my style
Shorty rainin' wet
Up in my ear talkin' 'bout
I got what you came for
This here got your name on it

Go on and hit it
That's what it's made for
We got protection
That's what it's made for
Boo are you trippin' now
You know i got it
That's what it's made for
So I can do you like this, baby
So I can freak you like this, baby
know you ain't felt it like this, baby
Girl I forgot it
But we gon' still get down like this

Game rules, no cap no cut
But even Superman couldn't turn your love down, I
Slipped up, slipped in
Hey man what the hell you doin?
Raw dog is a never
I know I know better
Heard her whisper
Dont worry I'm safe
Didn't matter cuz it's already to late
I was lost in the sauce, dead wrong
And I ain't stoppin' now
Parleein' in the bush again
Didn't think about what I was puttin' in it

Go on and hit it
That's what it's made for
She said, "You got somethin on right?"
That's what it's made for
Boo are you trippin'
You know I got it
Thats what it's made for
So I can do you like this, baby
So I can freak you like this, baby
know you ain't felt it like this, baby
Girl I forgot it
But we gon' still get down like this

Best stay where you are
That's what it's made for
Playa playa put it down
That's what it's made for
Oh baby turn around
You know I got it
That's what it's made for
So I can do you like this, baby
So I can freak you like this, baby
know you ain't felt it like this, baby
Girl I forgot it
But we gon' still get down like this

[Usher and girl speaking]
[Usher:] I gotta go
[Girl:] Mm mm, you ain't gotta go nowhere
[Usher:] Look baby I, something's comin' up, I gotta--
[Girl:] Mm mm, just get it up one more time, let me touch it
[Usher:] Again?
[Girl:] Again and again and again
[Usher:] Baby look--
[Girl:] Come on, you know that's what it's made for
[Usher:] You want me to sweat it out?
[Girl:] I want you to sweat it all out
[Usher:] I'mma get it baby
[Girl:] Get it, take it
[Usher:] Ok
[Girl:] Take it
[Usher:] I'mma get up inside

That's what it's made for (that's what it's made for)
That's what it's made for
Don't trip, I got protection
You know I got it
That's what it's made for
I'm gon' do you like this, baby
Oh you gon' freak you like this
Felt it like this
We gon' still get down like this
That's what it's made for
Oh, playa playa put it down
That's what it's made for
Too late to turn back now
You know I got it
That's what it's made for
Do you like this
Freak you like this
Felt it like this
Girl I forgot it
But we gon' still get down like this

And thats only the beginning (God)
I might as well just go to sleep here (damn)

 

[Vance]

Sorry everyone but I laughed so hard when I read all of posts in here. I don't know why I was laughing so hard. I hope I didn't offend anyone but I learned something new from this topic though.

erm...no offense but it seems you pick too many guys at random for date and stuff like that...that's not really too good. It's always a high possibly that some people would think you are a *cough* slut *cough* or anything similar to that...I mean, sure, dating is one of the best ways to find someone you fele is right for you, and to love him or whatever like that...but going out with more than one guy in the same year when you didn't even finish seeing the other one...you are considered a *cough* slut *cough* *ahem* anyway, what you mentioned about the black man seems pretty friendly so maybe you should keep hanging out with him some more and see how it goes so far after one year?

relationships are NEVER easy...even though love is the most important thing in the world...it's still a challenge to everyone. everything in life is a challenge to you. It's always wise to pick men more carefully, but sometimes women though they did, and after they find out how the man treated her wrongfully, she divorces him...some people are just so fucking weird after a few years of marriage they suddenly have a different personality so be EXTREMELY careful about that, trust me.

so...dont give up about men...hell, I've been through the similar path when I always asked a bunch of girls out just for some dinner and a movie, etc...they always say no or that they are busy or that they are already taken...but the real reason is that they've never went out with a deaf guy and they feel they dont have any experience with a guy who have hearing disablity or whatever like that and always go out with a hearing guy who thinks would make their life much easier that way but wait till they find out how their guy treated them and they would wish they never said no to me because I would never take advantage of a girl for sex, money, or anything like that...ever.

You are old enough to make your decisions and shit like that...so if you still wish you want to be loved and have a normal relationship with some guy you like, then it's not too late...just keep trying.

Well spoken. I was planning share my opinion with TTT but yours are good enough

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Hey guys

Sure, you know there're difference emotion view between women and men. It's normal!

 

[Vance]

Hey guys

Sure, you know there're difference emotion view between women and men. It's normal!

Of course, I agree with you. You already know that :P That's the part I cannot deny...

I would share more about my view and opinion but right now, my date is here (finally) and I am bit tired (it is past midnight in here).

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Dear TTT,
I read through carefully how you express your emotion feeling toward men. I had the feeling that it's something do with your unhappy childhood in the past.
That way, you describe here sounds that you're still unhappy and unsataisfed.

I think you need a professional help. I would recommend you to visit self help group therapy to learn to respect about yourself.

I know what I am saying because I had an experience like this in the past. I already made my unhappy childhood story in other thread here. I accept therapy because I want help to learn about myself. Now I'm happily married for 19 years and proud mother of 2 handsome boys.

That's why I would recommend you to do it before it's worst.

It's sad that your mother is so over-protection that's how she made you into a person like this. The men would not like you for that. The men will respect you only if you treat them the same.

It would be bad if you would not accept it.

Please think twice before you do something to postive your life.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Of course, I agree with you. You already know that :P That's the part I cannot deny...

I would share more about my view and opinion but right now, my date is here (finally) and I am bit tired (it is past midnight in here).

I caught you that you has "midnight" date ? ***dirty***

Logically, you rather to share with your date like this :buttsex: :69: :lick: :clit::bj: first then your view here later.

Right???

 

[TTT]

It isn't easy....

I am so insecure about myself.
I don't want good looking guys or popular guys to approach me.
They are too mean.
Damn, you watch, when I go back out there...
the cute one will come along.

I want the ugly guy....
Ugly guys treat me better.
And they got ugly body.
I know it is ewww at first...
And they are ummm, well, sometimes they got ugly personality.
Well, if I find something beautiful about them, then, I don't know.
The last guy, Bobby... he gross me out.... retch.
At least I tried to stay with him, even tho we didn't have good
sex.... but we enjoyed... retch.

I can't lie. But I just wish I meet a nice guy with nice personality,
and who is ugly too. Okay body, but not fat...
I can't stand fat body.

I am seeking professional help... She told me
to make a list, list 5 things I like about myself.

1. I am honest.
2. I am funny.
3. I am smart.
4. I got nice beautiful thick hair.
5. I love to dance.

:|

 

[Gemtun]

Then keep up with your counseling.

The folks here have tried to give you all answers they could but you seem determined to remain negative. Ugly men will still hurt you so it makes no difference whether he is ugly or not. It boils down to your self esteem. Positive self esteem and attitude is what good and honest men are strongly attracted to.

Remember -----> You have a choice: either change or don't change.

 

[TTT]

I am listening.

God gave me a free will.
I am going to try...


Because I listened to the girl at Job Corps in Atlanta, Georgia,
she told me men will hurt me.

Before I met her, I was optimistic about guys, I thought
guys were cute as puppies.

I listened to her since 1995.... 10 years ago, I still remember
what she told me. I don't know why I listen to her, she was
a lesbian. I had lesbian roommates, they told me about terrible men.

So right now, I will listen to you guys... for now on.

 

[TTT]

Ahhhh...

:roll:
Those Lesbians brainwashed me...

I don't think I can make it.

 

[DeafSCUBA98]

then get a life or u want us to pity u? to get attention? heh... bottom line is LOVE IS IMPORTANT

 

[Cheri]

TTT, What DeafSCUBA98 trying to say is.. He looking for love too, He is also free at this moment. Here's your chance.

 

[TTT]

get a life?

I will, but, this is a forum, I want to chat and post stuff.

You want me to shut up... and not post on here anymore??

 

[TTT]

He is young.

He is 24, and I am old, 34 years old.

 

[DeafSCUBA98]

i'm already taken cheri

but my point is.. that i know u're seeking help, but seems like u'll never accept it..

Trust me, once u get all the help done, all the awful things gone, and u'll find ur path

 

[TTT]

oh be quiet.

I can post on this forum.
Sick of tired of you belittle me, like I am the only one in this world
got a problem.

:madfawk:

 

[TTT]

I mean...

All I am trying to say is that LOVE is not important.

If I am content with that... then I am.

And you guys give me some love advice...

And then you guys are ready to send me to seek counseling... to take prozac....

What ever happen to an old fashion communication....???

All I want to do is talk... cause this is a lonely world we live in...

I didn't ask you to be DR. PHIL.... I just
post what I think about LOVE...

I don't want LOVE anyway.... that is too complicated...
That is like Algebra to me,, I like best to leave it alone.

And go on and do what I know best, like making film.
Because I study that for 10 years... I don't
know anything about LOVE...