You are totally off base on this one Grummer.
Originally Posted by Grummer
'selling yourself short' is typical remark, it is a syptom from a lack of conscientisation, in other words the way the dominant ideas and values are bombarded on everyone, raises the power for those who believe in it, and at same entraps , weaken those in position whom do not believe in this 'ideals' but are still compelled to conform, and thus says the right things, do the right things to promote the ideals of those who actually oppresses them. Jillio's comment provides a hint while its is not explicit -there is a reason behind this, stark expose to the reality of facts and experience being mismatched can be quite crude, even disturbing, it would create bewilderment as confusion stinks in. I do know what im saying , and yet I wil refuse to explain further, because it is probably more responsible to 'holdback' and let the 'rude awakening' to occur more gently in so doing, you would have more grip to preserve your sanity.
well, sorry i dont think so. I was describing exactly what effects Ideology have on people, which is a manifestion of ideas, beliefs that creates social cement (in other extreme occassions - it can act as a social solvent as well- creating war)
I may have used the wrong words for 'holding back' a bit, it should be more like let you discover it for yourself overtime at your paces, for your experiences are going to be different to mine as well as the way we 'think' about what we observe. is not same as denying knowledge, so hence the pace for all dimensions in socal theory are going to be individually paced as does taking action or even being more assertive about what you really are, but I stressed in the beginning ideology is much more powerful than we realise, it does to a large extend 'decides' what we are lead to believe in, and how we justify what we believe in.
How far woud some go to acknowledge oppressions of the Deafs have come a fair way (while still a long way to go - for sure), and yet I doubt many HOH people have stopped and think how much progress was really made for the politics to assert for hard of Hearing people? The fundings have all but been funnelled down to hearing aids specialists, specialised school teachers, etc, while wheres the funds for plans that could be shaped for empowering hoh people? the 'forgotten people' in the middle of two worlds!!
blah i think i said enough and its probably a waste of time posting this.
im just tossing away a 2 cents coin for nothing here.