Look Angel - maybe it would be nice if for a change, some others and you, too, took some responsibility for what's happening here as well?...
take note I've started this thread in a nice, polite way, very neutral,
and some people happened to be having normal discussion with me -SOME EVEN AGREED WITH ME!- until somebody came and claimed "oh, this post is about me" (which wasn't true in the least) and spoiled it for me.
and imediately all the usuall followed - the accusations, the derailings, the rudeness, finger poiting, etc., in all this some people as always missed my point.
Tousi said it best - hit a nail on the head:
Basically, Fuzzy, the truth of the matter here is an attitudinal one; you burned your bridges here past the point where some people do not want to focus on anything (bingo bingo bingo) you say/ask anymore. That's how I see it, given what has happened in the last couple of weeks.
THAT is exactly what is happening for the last few weeks- it's the
attitude-no matter if I am truly right or wrong- people DOESN'T give rats about what I am saying -they are only interested in crucifying me!
QFT!
(btw how nice of you Tousi to be aware of that and yet not saying anything. that certainly is helpful to all)
the way some of you treat me is also no way to treat somebody,
because even if you personally feel that someone is being disrespectful or flat out dislike this person - even so, you still NEED to be FAIR, and pay attention to WHAT is being said, NOT ONLY
how it's said- MOST and FOREMOST you have responsibility to LISTEN, you know?
so don't expect me to remain all smiles and roses after three pages of continual bashings, Okay? I believe I am doing very well as is anwyay, considering.
perhaps if I was given more due respect, then perhaps I would be nicer, too.
Liebl.: Have you read this postive post?
YES I DID. and you this:
Quote:
I:One of the most important things in my life has always been about finding ways to communicate with people from other cultures and with different language skills without giving them crap about it.
F:Oh I see. so, when I am not as skillful at languages as you, and and try hard to alert people they didn't get my meaning, but the don't give damn and keep pushing their agenda on me - I am giving them crap... Okay...
Quote:I:No one CARES about learning better English here.
F:I am sorry... - I am confused here- did I wanted anyone to improve or learn English better, or I simply wanted to LISTEN to me? what is that I wanted? it seems like everyone knows better than me what I want or wanted.
Quote:I
Personal reasons are another story!)
F:I can see your attitude, too. Did you actually pay any attention to what I wrote so far in other posts, weren't you already biased when you replied to me? because it certainly looks like you are attacking me for things I didn't do.
And NO this is not QUITE "positive" post - Interpretator is actually being slightly aggressive towards me.
Fuzzy